I'm a female, I tend to just rub my clit until I cum. Im getting bored though. What can I do to make things more interesting? I don't really enjoy having things inside me, though I've never actually had sex. But I wish I could find a guy who would go only as far as I wanted him to go, yet still surprise me and lead the way so I wouldn't know what was going to happen next. I've never really had much interaction with guys in this way. I've always only masturbated. But in my masturbation, what can I do to spice things up?
You aren't going to have much to work with if you don't want anything inside you. Try buying a small dildo, something designed for the g-spot. My fiance and I have figured out the trick to amazing orgasms. Usually people stop when they orgasm, when we do each other with the toy we continue the thrusting as we orgasm, they cycles them and pretty much makes you do it again and again and again, all in a row. Harder to do on your own but it takes practice. If you are afraid of the pain, a vibrator help ease the pain of inital penetration. If you really really don't want penetration, then use a vibrator or tickler on your clit.
If you're not comfortable with things inside you, then try using a vibrator held up to your clit until you come. You should invest in one that can change vibration speeds so you can ramp it up at the last second. You will have the best time of your life this way! You can also try watching porn or play with your nipples. Do a bunch of different stimulation to all your hot spots and see what works best.
There is nothing like real sexual intercourse done right. Bits of plastic and electro-mechanical devices are no replacement for romatic love and sex. Nothing better than a soft and hard penis thrusting inside of you, the fear of getting pregnant, the passion of making love. Pick a guy wisely not just based on his body, the guy has to be emotional and caring. Don't pick a guy that you want to be emotional he has to BE emotional, intelligent, the right mindset. NO easy task, but not impossible.
