I feel like I'm never going to be in a meaningful relationship because I just can't see girls as liking me. Tonight I was walking to my cousins house by myself enjoying the snow, and a girl walks by me and says "Hi, whats your name?" I just looked straight at the ground, kept walking and thought to myself why even bother, she can do better than me. Whats wrong with me? I dismiss women even before I can get to know them. Even if they make a first move, which I find very appealing. Now I feel like another chance has passed me by.
quit hating yourself Dood! A girl spoke to you and you said nothing? well, sounds like an issue to me bro.
nothing is wrong with you, you just sound nervous and afraid that you'll make a wrong move. get to know her as a person, look at her as a friend and person not as a girl.
Its alright, don't kick yourself in the head! She was just one girl outta a million who's still out there! You gotta get some self confidece! Ain't nuthing horriably wrong with you. Just realize that yes, GIRLS can like YOU hehe! Self confidence is sexy, man! Some guys I know who like me..they always tell me "Oh, you probably dont like me, you can do better than me, etc etc" and that just turns me off, because i don't want to keep re-assuring a guy even if I did like him, and its just plain annoying! Of course theres a line bewtween confidence and cockiness. Plus, if a girl makes a move on you, obviously she finds you acctractive and wants to get to know you..so take a chance, and see where it goes! Don't ever you're not good enough for someone. And you're not doomed forever from relationships just because your kinda shy and think the girls who approach you can do better. Whats 'better' anyways? We are all equal! Cmon, your a cool guy, aintcha? So let a girl(s) get to know you and see what a rockin guy you are, but you gotta beileve you rock. don't fake it either! goodluck, and i hope i helped!!!! SELF CONFIDENCE! If you have any Q's, i can help yah! Adios!
Imagine how she feels. She's probably at home thinking, "What the hell is wrong with me? I walked right up to a cute guy last night and said 'hi' and he did'nt even acknowledge me. I hate myself"
dont feel bad! always look forward, dont look back on what you couldve done, it wont get you anywhere instead, look forward and know that theres a possibility you'll see her again and that time you'll be able to talk to her and get to know her
There is a VERY good chance I could see her again. We don't exactly live in the biggest place around haha. Thanks loveflower
