I love to edge (if you don't know what it is google it) I find it to give me the most intense orgasm. Sometimes when my wife has "her period" (provided she is not crampy) and I am lucky/she is feeling in a giving mood she will treat me to "special blowjob night". It is an alternative to me getting myself off. She would rather do this than have me get myself off as the wants to be "part of it. We will watch TV and i will stroke myself for an hour or two. Then she when my motor is really gooing she will finish me with her mouth. It is unbelievable. Sometimes thougth she gets agrivated because all i want too watch is scantily clad women. I would prefer porn but, she is not into. I have even considered asking her to leave me alone while i "warm up so i cand watch what i want. Has anyone else been able to incorporate edghing into mutual sex.