So a month ago i had unprotected sex with this guy, and he pulled out. it was literally like a day after my period ended. then like 2 weeks ago i was raped and he didnt cum in me, but i think i might have also been ovulating at that time then a few days ago i had unprotected sex but it seriously lasted like a minute. this was a day before my period was due my period is now 3 days late and im freaking the fuck out. what are the chances i could be pregnant? i dont need a lecture about safe sex, i know it was stupid of me (with the exception of the rape incident) and i'll add with the whole precum thing, all three times was at parties, and pretty late into the night, so theres a really high chance that all three of the guys had peed after the last time they came, if that helps at all. im probably going to buy a pregnancy test later today but im like really really really freaking out bad
All every woman should know is that the pull out method is just another term for 'parenthood'. It also doesn't matter at what part of your cycle you are in. Your chances are much greater while you're ovulating, but you can get pregnant at anytime. Also, if all three times were at parties where alcohol (or anything else for that matter) was involved, do you think a guy you don't know is gonna tell you he came (precame) inside of you, or is he gonna tell you he didn't and hope you didn't catch his name? So I can't (nor can anyone else) tell you that there is exactly a 37% chance that you're pregnant, however the chance is still there because you had unprotected, and I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say intoxicated, sex. But you could very well possibly be. I would also get checked for any STD's.
wait what? i know none of them came in me... i wasnt so drunk that i had no clue about that. obviously i know there is a chance, i just want to know if i should be as worried as i am. cause at this point i cant tell if im just stressing myself out so bad that my period is late, or if im pregnant
I have never been peed on and thought it was cum, am I reading that right? You can get pregnant any time in your cycle ... I would buy the test. I'd also live a less risky lifestyle (not judging)
It really depends on how your cycle is. My period is so chaotic that I don't even track it. When I was 15-17 I got it like twice on one month, then didn't get it for 2-3 months. 18-19, I've gotten it twice total. I say this because, if you've got a really retarded period like mine is, I wouldn't worry as much, but I would still take a pregnancy test just to make sure. Also, I say that about them lying because some guys may perhaps come so little that you could have mistaken what was his, for what was yours. And I say get checked for STD's because there is always that chance with sexual contact. I'd be a bit worried, but I think every woman is worried a bit after sex if they do not want to become pregnant. But I don't think you should put yourself into a psychotic episode because of it.
what? no, im saying that the thing with precum is that its more likely to be dangerous if the guy came earlier that day or whatever and then thats how the precum can get you pregnant, but if the guy pees at some point after he came (before having sex) then that like clears it out and theres less chance of there being sperm in the precum so my point with that was that in all three cases of unprotected sex there was a very high chance that the precum didnt have sperm in it and i know that they definitely did not cum in me because i saw them pull out/jerked them off before they came or whatever... its not like they were just like "yeah i pulled out" and i took their word for it...
i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it was negative, thank god. also all my info about precum is from what ive read on like every single website about pregnancy and sex that i looked at yesterday while trying to figure out if i was. still havent gotten my period which is weird, i'll take another test if it doesnt come in the next week or so
Forget pregnancy, what about STIs? Pregnancy won't kill you, the irresponsibility of shagging around without using condoms is where you need to worry. Firstly; report your rape. Not just for moral reasons, but for health reasons too. Had you done so when it happened, you'd have been tested by now. Secondly; get your ass down to a GUM clinic for testing. Last but not least; get yourself on the pill AND use condoms!
Why does anyone have unprotected sex nowadays? Lack of information? NO! Lack of anticonceptional methods? NO! Irresponsibility? YES!
