Anyone ever have someone put it on a plate for you and you've blown it. I met a girl when we were both in our early 20's at a friends house and a fewnights later she was at the pub quiz i always went to. She sat opposite me and said she drank lager and lime 'the tarts drink' which was a hint, I guess. Then a bit later she started rubbing her leg up against mine. Obvioulsy to encourage me to do what men should do. I just froze. Worse thing is she was wearing a short pink skirt and pink tights which is my fav. things to see women in! She was def. wanting it and I can't believe I blew it. I've never been close to having sex with anyone that nice since.
All of them got away except for the one I caught The closest miss was when I was 13 -- but that was a blessing in disguise -- I wasn't old enough or mature enough in my opinion.
I consider "the one that got away" to be more of a person you had a chance with and blew it. Relationship wise, you dated a while and could see yourself being with them, then you did something stupid and they were too smart to stay with you and left. Then to this day you miss them. In this case, yes I feel that way. OP sounds more like you just failed at a hookup.
the only girl I ever really liked became my best friends girlfriend. nowadays I find both of them rather droll and and somewhat boring...(personality wise)
I mean, I think it all depends on how sure of a hook up it is though. After all, they're both derived from fishing terms -- and typically the fish that got away is one you coulda hooked and failed to pull in..
One time a girl from one of my college classes came over to do some geometry homework. She was a little older that me. Since I had a roommate, we were studying in my room. She was sitting indian style on my bed, and made a comment that my bed didn't squeak too much. Nothing happened though. I should have donged her like there was no tomorrow. I don't know what I was thinking.
I've denied some, never regretted it though. I remember if I skipped a meal years ago, I regretted it literally for years. Thinking back, "Damn I totally should have ate that.." I used to be a coke addict and that is just fucking baffling how I could choose to starve myself like that. I love my food today. Not passing up the healthy goodness I partake in today.
a fuckton of em. I console myself by thinking that I'm the one that got away from them And I'm almost kidding with both of those statements.
ha ha. that is a major fail! I wonder why she didn't just come right out and say 'why don't we fuck?'. I also was in a room with a friend who'd jsut moved into a shared house and one of the girls who lived there just came striaght out with 'I hope I get fucked toniight'. I should have said 'I'll fuck you now if you want.' major fail for me!!
When it comes to just one chance, no strings there was one night I had an opportunity with the nicest looking girl in my school year group. We were all around 18, and she had just broken up with her boyfriend- she tells a friend to to me I was interested and that I should just go talk to her. A girl hot girl on the rebound, it seemed pretty clear to me and everybody what was going on. She was always in a long term relationship, and though we never spoke people said that she had a type (dark features, tall etc) and that I fell in line with all her other boyfriends. Probably should have said something, but i've never felt so insecure about doing something. That window closed, I still see her and share the odd look but it'll never happen. Whoops.
No, true. It's just an occasion I recall from my later teens. I wish I had the confidence I have now that I hadn't then.
ive got some interesting ones.. dads girlfriend, older brothers current girlfriend (who hes been with for 2-3 years), close friends little sister (who ive known since she was in grade school). and the only one who i wouldnt have been into under different circumstances was my bros gf .. caniving bitches ! maybe thats how i developed 'trust' issues
There was one who got away back in college and I really do think about her all the time. She lived a couple of apartments down and we were both part of a group of friends that all hung out together all the time. She was really cute, I probably even thought she was out of my league at the time. She came over one night in this tiny little soft pink nighty/PJ kind of thing and we sat and talked till way into the morning. She was confiding in me about a lot of personal stuff and I was trying to be the good guy/big brother even though I couldn't take my eyes off of her. Anyway, just a week or so later, she hooked up with this new boyfriend, none of us in the group could stand him. She told me later that she was interested in me and I just didn't show any interest in her.....if she only knew how interested I was. I remember her and Larry seemed like they rarely left their bedroom once they hooked up and at the time, that drove me nuts. Life went on and I lost track of her but now, 20+ years later, I still think about her frequently.
