Help with this kind of relationship!!!??

Kinda hard to explain....buttttt, i have this relationship with a girl that all we do is constantly text eachother saying how much we hate eachother and "your soo mean!" kinda thing. its reallly hard to explain what kind of relationship we have but those two things best describe the "type" of relationship. We both would probably be lost without eachother though. problem is, i have a crush on her...she knew i LIKED her, but i dont think she knows i still do. Her mom says she has the "hots" for me. I am craazy about her and shes all i think about lately. Im just babbling on and i hope im making sense..how do i get her to like me?!?! because i think i fall into that "friend" category but i will do anything to get out of that category and just even into the "possibility" category. im extrememly sorry if no one can understand how i feel and what im trying to get out. but can anyone give it a shot?

 

I think that if you want to be something more than friends you need start acting like you want her more than just a friend. If you continue the same routine of ''texting'' each other like you explained here, there's a big chance that it'll stay like this. She might even be waiting for you to make the first move? It won't hurt to find out. Good luck.

 

if you're already in the friend zone, you're not getting out.

yes, it can and has happened, but no point wasting your life hoping for something that happens to one out of 100 people when you could be pursuing something attainable instead.

 

if it's meant to be, you wont' have to do anything but be yerself, and maybe flirt a little...if she is receptive she'll respond

 

nothing is "meant to be." you have to put yourself out there if you want someone. just in this case you already missed that window.

 

I agree here. Although I fell in love with my best friend and we're together now, I really think its time you change directions with your texting relationship and start getting a little serious...me and my boyfriend used to have a fun text-filled friendship that was harmless until I finally threw feelings out there and it's been love ever since...try it.

If you keep things as they are, they will stay that way...keep that in mind.

 

this^^^^^

 

Actually, this does not fit the idea I have of the friend zone. My hunch is that the texting back and forth of how much you hate each other is just disguised affection.

I would think the friend zone has more to do with trying to score sensitivity and helpfulness points to get into her panties.

What you're doing is not very effective technique, but it might still give you a shot at that ol' puntang.

 

If you like her as much as you say you do, then try to flirt with her. Get you some. And you won't be lost without each other... That is a bunch of BS. You will be fine, so if she doesn't feel the same way... NEXT. It isn't worth dwelling over.

 

i'd say cherea hit the nail on the head
it's like when little boys pull a girls hair because they like her
same shit
odds are she prolly likes you too
find out man
whadya got to lose

 

^ agreed. And she is a girl, so she knows.