Guy who came to the car wash

A few months ago a guy named Jordan brought his car to the car wash I work at to have it detailed and needed a ride to his home while it was being worked on. When I took him to his home, he was very curious about my personal life and I was equally curious about him as well. I think that this guy Jordan may be gay because of how curious he was about me, and he had said that he was completely single, no significant others in his life and had never been married and he is pushing 50 years old. He was a very friendly person and that is something that I do go for besides just good looks, as there are good looking guys I don't care much for because they are arrogant and rude and have an Adonis complex. He also tipped me very well for both the trip to his house and the return trip to the car wash after his car was finished. I have developed a crush on him over the last couple of months but he doesn't know that because that was the only time I saw him. He is very cute especially for hs age but doesn't have the Adonis complex. Did I miss an opportunity to find out if he is gay or straight?

I recently even had a dream in which this guy Jordan and I were lovers and an ex-boyfriend of his was trying to get back with him, but Jordan told him several times in the dream that it was over between them and that he was with me now. Could that be a prophetic dream of what may come to pass for me personally?

 

I would not worry too much about Jordan being gay or not.

If you felt that he was coming onto you, that's all that matters. Stop by at his place and ask, if the work was done to his satisfaction? See how it goes?

Do not throw the big gay thing at him. You do not know his personal situation. He may or may not be closeted. His reasons may be good or bad or somewhere in-between. However, you do not want to go there at this stage.

Make friends, talk and enjoy his company. Usually, one thing leads to another, as they say...

KD

 

Sure, good advice - us older guys are often reticent unless the younger obviously hits on us :sunny:

Simon

 

I often misjudge being nice as flirting. I would say just brush it off.

 

50, good looking and friendly, "single"

Thats all the info you need, I'd give it a 90% chance

 

you make your life. it's not written ahead in the stars for you. if you want something to happen between the two of you my advice is do something about it.

 

KewlDewd66, I appreciate the advice you gave, but at the same time, I would not want Jordan to think I'm coming on real strongly to him or that I'm harassing or stalking him, and don't want either of us to feel uncomfortable about it. Believe it or not, even though that was the first time I've seen him, at least that I can actively remember, I care about him as if I had known him for years. I may just wait and see if he comes over to my job again and just be nice to him and tell him I remember how generously he tipped me for the rides to and from his place and how friendly he is. Even his name is sexy, but I will not reveal his last name to protect his privacy.