Just can't get no.. Satisfaction!

Hi everybody, let me introduce myself. My name is Bob and I've been in a loving relationship for over 5 years now. I don't have any complaints except for one. My Girlfriend just wont give me head or any attention down there unless she gets hers too. I don't have a problem with that since I love to give oral and I'll do it any day of the week. But sometimes I come home from a long day and need attention but if my girl is not in the mood she wont bother. I respect her so I usually don't pressure her into doing it except...

Yesterday I was thinking about sex all day and was hoping that I'd get some last night, I shaved before she got home and was hoping to surprise her with a nice big hard on I thought that this would turn her on but she didn't ever care. I told her that if she played with me It would make me realy happy but she refused and told me to go jerk myself instead. I was frustrated and said fine and went to our room to satisfy myself in private. she was mad at this and said that If I did I would have to sleep on the couch. I found that ridicules since even after our worst arguments I've never ever had to slept alone. She promised me that she would give me sex tomorrow, I was happy but at the same time I would of loved a little hand job or blow job to ease my mind. I really needed release since my balls were just aching full of desire all day.

I cant help but to feel dirty and selfish for wanting the extra attention. But I also feel that this could be a problem since I know that a good amount of woman don't have a problem doing this for their man. I wouldn't break up with her cause of this but I feel as though I'm not wanted or that I deserve better.

-Am I wrong for wanting a little extra happiness??

-Does any other guy on here have this problem and have come to a mutual agreement with you're spouse, wife or girlfriend?

Responses from women about this would be much appreciated, Id love to know what you all think and what you would do in my position.

Serious responses please....

 

Chicks are so weird. They get insulted because you want to do yourself. Seriously - what is that about - especially when they want nothing to do with you.
I don't know what to tell you. If you was totally bummed about something I guess I could see it. But if you guys are in a relationship and one has a serious need - it would seem like the other would bend over backward for them (no pun intended).
All I can say is that chicks are strange creatures. I hope you get some female response. I would like to know the answer too.

 

She sounds like she doesn't like to suck cock for sucking cock's sake. Girls like that exist...Didn't you know that from the beginning though?

So, she told you to jerk off and then was mad when you did it?? If so, that sounds manipulative to me. Or did you do it?

Do you guys live together? Who purchased the bed?

Then why complain about it? That sucks, though. Good luck.

 

Also, what is this stuff about "give me sex"; sex ain't anything she could "give" you any more than you give her. If she's not getting as much from it as you are , then why would she do it?

Frankly, buddy...It sounds to me like you're a little whipped.

 

Hahahaha! Jeez good observation there, I know very well that I'm pussy whipped, every woman knows that vagina is mans kryptonite. Women know our weakness and will always use that against us. If your in a serious relationship that's a given alright. But we have our own ways to whip you women into shape as well..

I was really frustrated when I started this thread and have been relieved of my sexual tension. The day after I wrote this thread I came home to find my girlfriend in a skimpy little lace outfit, we had the best sex ever. I came three times and she said she lost count, I guess I'll just have to live with her not giving me bJs/HJs on demand. I have it good considering that some guys in their relationships are sex starved. At least I get it REAL good 2-3 times a week. You know she has given me a few nice BJs and Hjs in the past without getting anything in return. I know she enjoys it, I just think she is lazy sometimes and probably just doesn't wanna have to do all the work if she is not in the mood which is totally understandable, Id rather not get anything then get a half ass BJ/HJ anyway.

I've realized that its wrong of me in expecting instant gratification from my partner. We live in very sexual times and sexual stimulation is everywhere we look. Guys these days all wanna have a porn star nympho girlfriend. Men now a days are conditioned to think that every woman has to love giving head, hand jobs and receiving facials hahaha! I guess that that's something I always have to remind myself when I get into werewolf mode and cant get any attention. Next time I'll just take a nice long hot shower