my boyfriend masturbating next to me

If for whatever reason I don't feel like making love to my boyfriend one night ... should I be OK about him masturbating next to me in bed while I'm going to sleep... wrong or right?

 

It's wrong, but not for the reason you think. Tell us, why you are still his girlfriend while you don't feel like making love to him?

 

^ maby she had a head ache, haha, i dont think its wrong tho im a fella so probly a bit byist, why does it bother u or make u feal unconfterbal?.. Whos bead is it?...0 )

 

It was one time and I was dead tired and wouldn't have enjoyed it ...if you need an explanation..
It felt awkward and I was just wondering what other people think about this kind of stuff , don't know if I should feel that way or just get over it and try another perspective

 

Well, put the shoe on the other foot

If he was dead tired, didnt want to do it when you really wanted to, and then he freaked out if you just wanted to rub one out whilst he had his arm around you. How would you feel?

Go by him, not how you think every other girl would tell you how you should think

 

it would have been funny to wait till he was about to climax and then scare the crap out of him...you sound like you think he should of went to the bathroom to rub one out.. most men do that.. ..

 

) that's funny in theory but it wouldn't be very nice of me

I don't mind him doing it ...just not around me when I'm not in the mood

anyway thanks for the reply guys. really helpful

 

does he make disgusting noises?..is he just''a little too happy'' when he is whacking off?.....does he have a pet name for his hand?...does he ever get any on you?so many questions and so little time...:mickey:

 

If you can get comfortable with it I think it's great. I'd love to be able to do that when my wife isn't in the mood. What a honest thing to be able to do. Most guys excuse themselves to the bathroom or the basement for a few minutes which is really kinda dishonest if you think about it. Why shouldn't he be able to do it right there?

I wouldn't have any problem with my wife taking care of business next to me, either (although I'm sure I'd get over being too tired and join in at some point).

It's crossed my mind before to try it but I've always chickened out.

 

oh please do try it and get back to me about it )) I'm really interested in a woman's opinion

 

is your job asking silly questions or are you just too bored?

 

get a tempur-pedic and you won't even notice him beating it over there.

 

Perfect responce.

 

I do this all the time. As a matter of fact my fiancee does too as we live in a studio apartment and I work 7 days a week and have a tendency of being exhausted. I also wake up before she does and she isn't a morning person.

I think you should get over yourself.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

If your not comfortable with it, he shouldn't do it.

 

Him: Feel like a fuck?.....Her: "NO"!.....Him: Then do you mind just lying there while I have one??

 

I'd really like it to be honest, but I also probably would get over being not in the mood really quickly, too. I've always wanted for him to do that in front of me and only got my wish once. Aaaahhh. But there's been a few times during sex that he ends up getting off before I do, so I finish on my own. It's fun, I like it, lol.

 

as long as he doesn't shoot it on you why should you care, it's his bed too

 

You Sound Like You Either Run Hot, Or Cold, What's Wrong With Running Warm

For A Few Minutes, Just For His Sake......And Stop Being So Selfish.



Cheers Glen.

 

I agree with this. It's basically the heart of any relationship. Sometimes you just don't get your way. That's part of being an adult and living with someone else. It's just being considerate. That's basic.