Girls - can you advise us how to finger you ?

Most men don't know who to do this properly.

Can you please tell us how to finger your pussy and clit to give you the maximum amount of satisfaction and pleasure ?

Thank You,

 

Make sure you get it wet first: fingers can be painful if it's really dry - wetter = better.

From there it really depends on the woman: some prefer the pressure of many fingers, some like you to move it slowly and try to find the 'g-spot', others don't like penetration with fingers at all. Just keep experimenting. The most important thing to remember is that it's likely she'll try to communicate to you through her body: pay attention to noises and body motions. If you don't understand, ask. PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE

 

Thank you Robyn, when you say 'make sure you get it wet first', I'm assuming you mean her pussy, not your finger. Or perhaps, why not both.

I believe 2 fingers are the best for insertion, correct ?
1 finger is too little and 3 may be too much.

Also, can you tell us how to play with her clit ?

Thank You,

 

TRIM YOUR FINGER NAILS

Sorry to caps, but it's that important.

 

This.

I'm not a girl but, if I were to add... Well, communicate with your partner ANYWAY. What I've learned over the years is that you need to communicate and find out what she likes in particular. Every girl is different as Robyn suggests. While some enjoy direct clitoral stimulation, some may find it to be too much. Similarly, some prefer just one finger inside, some two, some three... As Robyn says, some prefer clitoral stimulation only when stimulated via hand, while some prefer you put your finger(s) inside and leave their clits alone. Add to all that is how each woman prefers to be touched at various stages of her arousal. All this you can't know without actually communicating with that particular partner.

Remember, it's better to ask and learn what that particular girl likes than not knowing while acting like you know how to do it. Knowing the general idea of how to do it doesn't necessarily mean you know how to make that particular girl feel special in that way. And I use the word special because that's what you should focus on. Sexually and otherwise.

 

Gotcha ! That was a gem of advice from Robyn and further elaborated by AT. Each girl is different. I notice that some don't communicate during sex or are shy, but if you can read her body language, you're on the right track. Thanks all,

 

Manservant, my nails are in impeccable condition. I'm a healthy hygienic person normally. Shower, wash my cock, soap, shampoo etc.

I was just thinking what Robyn said about how some women are partial to how men touch them. Generally men don't mind much whether they get a HJ, BJ or just plain old-fashioned fucking. But it is intriguing why some women object to certain foreplays.

I used to lick a girls clit while fingering her with 2 fingers and she enjoyed it. Another girl would not even let me see her pussy, never mind licking or fingering. We fucked, but nothing beyond that. It makes me wonder, why are women so different ? Sometimes, I feel so sorry for them and what they have to go through in life.

 

Ho about a hug.

 

Hi, i find its really good when my bf goes down on me to start and gets me nice and wet then he slips a couple of fingers in me. This works because im already aroused and ready for him. I love it when my bf has his fingers in me and licks/sucks my clit! Its orgasmic!

 

Sometimes nothing beats a good, warm hug.

 

Yes Jeanie, that's what I used to do to one of my ex-GF. I would first play around with her pussy. Then slowly insert a finger into her ****, then another finger, then start licking around her clit, sometimes slightly biting her labia, giving her a total finger and licking/sucking experience.

Sometimes, I would put vanilla pudding on her pussy and lick it off her.
Once, I poured some wine into her **** and slowly slurped it off her. It was great. She didn't mind and neither did I. After I finished working on her pussy, she would kiss me on the lips to show how much she appreciated the effort I made to please her. A real nice gal, and I wish we had not gone our separate ways.

 

great experience!!! im like it!

 

Hi Natali, I'm glad you approve. I hope you don't mind if I say you look quite lovely on your picture. There are some folks who think I'm kinky or something, but there's nothing wrong with trying to please your partner, as long as she enjoys it. One has to be be creative at times, without hurting each other. Also, I observe carefully to ensure that she's not being forced to do things against her desires. If I do find this out, I quickly stop.

So yes, nothing wrong with going to the fridge to find out what you can put on your partner's pussy and lick it off her. Enjoy !

 

It has to be wet. Lots of lube, or saliva if I'm not already wet. It's best to tease and rub gently, then slide a finger into me, then two. Although if I'm really horny a couple will just slide right in.

 

very nice.

 

use your fingers.

 

never had anyone lick anything off of me!

 

I am sure there are plenty of volunters here. I for one.....Pick me !!!:blush5:

 

I'd imagine that many guys are going to put their hand up to do this GC - many guys!

 

volunteers!