Love Love Love...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by IndieRockKid, Feb 21, 2011.

  1. IndieRockKid

    IndieRockKid Guest

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    Maybe it will sound banal or stupid, but i like a guy from my school (i don't know him) and i see him everyday.I think he's the coolest guy from 300 guys at my school haha. But how to make him to see me or even look at me? Any advices??
     
  2. TheWhiteOne216

    TheWhiteOne216 Member

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    Say Hello?
     
  3. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Buy him flowers.
     
  4. Gizmo1988

    Gizmo1988 Member

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    Honestly if he doesn't see you than first you got to make yourself known to him. Trying going up to him and talking.
     
  5. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    The following trick generally has been known as a fail-safe method...

    Just go up to him and say hi. :) Strike up a conversation, start off by making a nice comment about...well, anything that sounds casual and chill. Like, "hey, that's a cool jacket, where'd you get it?" You know, casual conversation. ;)
     
  6. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    Always best to be yourself - Honesty last longer than deceit
    Try and be confident and exude a positive image of your persona :)
    - though do not betray your principles
    Don't be backwards in coming forwards in letting someone know your feelings - if they are of good character, then it may lead to more - if they return a negative reaction, with courtesy then nothing lost.
    If they return a negative reaction without good grace, then you are best without them - iThinks
    (but then again - its a long time since I was at school - so I revert to my olde reasoning - follow your heart)
    :peace:
     
  7. IndieRockKid

    IndieRockKid Guest

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    Well, i can't just go to a stranger and say "hi" that would be weird and im not that brave haha
     
  8. IndieRockKid

    IndieRockKid Guest

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    It would be perfect if i bump into him haha, easier to start talk or at least he would remember me
     
  9. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Ok, I'll let you in on a secret... That's exactly how you meet new people. ;) New, as in never met before... So we all start out as strangers really.

    Seriously, you do this all the time, for instance at stores. At the cashier, you and the store's employee may exchange greetings. You guys are total strangers and yet you guys do this regularly. You know, the only reason why it's harder to talk to this dude is because you like him. That emotion has a way of making us more nervous that we should be.

    But really, the worst that could happen is that he ends up being a jerk and be rude to you upon your first conversation attempt with him. In which case, you wouldn't want him anyway. Just be chill and friendly, and if he's really that cool like you say he is, then it's more likely that he be friendly to you back, than not. :)
     
  10. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    he should see you if you step directly in front of him...

    what makes you think he's so cool if you don't even know him?
     
  11. IndieRockKid

    IndieRockKid Guest

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    okay i dont know he's cool or not! haha haven't you been in situation like this, when you like somebody ( physically) and it makes you imagine that that person is perfect and etc.. ?
     
  12. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    eh, i'll fantasize about hot strangers sexually, but it never really gets beyond sex fantasy until i already know them fairly well.
     
  13. IndieRockKid

    IndieRockKid Guest

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    well, then you're luckyer than me.
     
  14. onetimeuser

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    Girls generally cannot pull this off, I notice. Oddly, sometimes it's the more average looking dudes with hot personalities that induce the fantasies. Herp derp.
     

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