Gay sex behind my wifes back

Oh yes, I am sorry. Why on earth would I feel sorry for a wife who doesn't know that her husband is off having sex with a lot of other people and using her photo for his and other men's pleasure?!

You say you're not a troll.... for once I really hope you are.

 

Mmmm, lot of anger in this thread.

Want some more?

Unfortuantely the flip side of this argument is there are too many girls that know going in that their guy is half half. They arent stupid, they catch you checking out guys, get a little more excited than you should around certain guys, focused a liitle too much during the volleyball scene in Top Gun. They'll still put on the act, especially with their friends "Oh, no he's not like that"....but they KNOW

Also unfortuantely, that All Men are Pigs syndrome means they think half of you at least will stick it anywhere, and they are never really sure what happens when no girls are around so.....

Use of the word Gay is kind of annoying, the OP is a married guy, talking about picking up other married guys from bookstores and fucking them. Nothing to do with us


And lastly, for the guys responding in this thread, you want to get angry? Work out what the female version of this is

 

Lol you are so ignorant. You're right you can't help how you feel and their is nothing wrong with the feelings you have. There is 1 problem though, you act them out which makes you a frigging cheater and liar.

 

Hey, if you don't care about your wife; why should I?

 

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you can help it if you wanted to but you got a week will and no willpower to point yur dick in the right drection

 

What you are doing to your wife is fucked up! I really hope you are protecting yourself for your wife's sake. Your gay, just fess up to it and divorce your wife already!!! I really hope you don't have kids because it is this type of situation that fucks with childrens heads and fucks them up mentally and emotionally for LIFE!!

 

its the fess up part that is difficult. It just feels really strange to tell myself that i might be gay.

and i do make the men wear condoms when the fck me. unfortunately we do have a 4 y/o child. i'm hoping she will never learn of my doings.

 

Its funny how the battle of the sexes overides the battle of orientations.

You know as well as I do there are plenty more guys out there in the OPs situation than anybody wants to admit. I spent too much time in my teens avoiding the advances of anguished married men. Anything that requires anonymity such as baths or beats is predominately the realm of married men, not to hard to work out the math.

And dont even try to tell me its any different for the gals. Half the guys out there dont care where they stick it, half the gals dont care where they get it

 

Gay, straight, male or female doesn't chance any of this.

The OP wants sympathy?

Fuck you, my sympathy goes to the one who is being lied to and cheated on and the child involved.

 

Ahh, the green eyed monster. Lets not pretend most would put whats best for the child first, it would be that aspect that makes the blood boil that determines the outcome.

Not that the OP is even close to gay, but if they did split up and He went on to have a ltr with another guy, what really sucks is that the reality is:

A) If the kids a girl she's going to get to her teens, run around tell all her friends she has a gay dad "How cool am I", and just naturally assume daddy was too hot for mommy, or mommy didnt do enough to hang on to daddy - thats the way they think

B) If the kids a guy, maybe a few extra fights in high school once the other kids find out dads a homo, or if mum doesnt re-marry he becomes head of the household - either way kid ends up just that little more of a man

C) If they stick together "For the sake of the kid(s)" and fake it, kids going to pick up on that, and end up just that little less interested in marriage after seeing the loveless prison their parents were trapped in

Until we have the ability to see into the future, no one knows whats best for the kid. Lifes funny like that

 

The best for the child is to grow up with parents who are honest and treat each other with respect.

There is none of that in the OP's relationship according to his words.

 

Teens especially, whats best for them is how popular they are, how many friends they have, what cool gadgets they have, whether they do well in school, how likley they are to get into the right college course.

How honest and respectful the daggy parents are wouldnt even make the top ten. And if you remember life as a teen, they arent going to listen to half the shit parents say to them

 

So now you are going to go ask kids whats best for them? Great... chocolate cake and ice cream for everyone.

When kids are raised in an atmosphere that is filled with lies, mistrust and hate, they grow up to think things like that are normal and everyone goes through them. They usually then continue on to pass that same experience onto their kids, thinking it is normal.

Keep arguing that it is normal and okay VG... you just validate the point.

 

No, I'm saying no one knows whats best for them

JFKs kids turned out all right, Bill Clintons kids too for that matter, even Charlie Sheens kids probably will

 

Oh yeah, they will all turn out to be great people just like their parents...

If you consider normal and good to be lies and hate... then I guess I agree with you from that perspective...

 

Its just a parent thing man, you all dont have anywhere near as much influence on how you kids are going to turn out as you want to believe


You seriously think the OP belongs to a very small niche minority? Don't be so naive

 

Where did I ever say that the OP was a minority?

As for the 'parent' thing.... BEING a parent, I know for a fact that kids, especially ones that are 4 years old are almost 100% influenced by their parents, and I also know that the core things you learn about the world before the age of 5 stick with you for life, although some of it can be changed with a concentrated effort.

To sit there and say, hey, go ahead, its okay to lie to your family and destroy any form of trust they may have cause everyone else does it, has to be the stupidest thing I have heard from you.

 

Dina Matos comes to mind.

 

John Walker Lind comes to mind.