I really need help I lied a LOT to my friend or other people . I lie about that I have perfect life which I dont have it , i lie where I'm from how I live, lie about everything. I do it just because to look perfect which is not . I dont feel so good when i'm doing this I just want to stop . What should I do. I mean cant stop I really need help what am gonna do please
Surely they dont know you well otherwise they would find out? What do you think will happen when they do?
I have met people in my life that lie even when the truth would suit them better. What are you trying to accomplish by lying?
You then,have let others control you and your thoughts. That must be a miserable feeling.If you want to have any kind of a decent life now and over the coming years,you must accept that telling the truth is more important than letting others control you. If people don't like "your truth"-you don't want them anyway.If you don't control your compulsion--prepare for a life where no one wants anything to do with you. Lying is just about as bad as stealing. You don't say how old you are,but I'm assuming you're a teen.
By realizing that lying to the people you love and care about is detrimental to your life, you've already begun to make your life better! If you feel that you need to express yourself to others as perfection, realize that this kind of perfection CANNOT be attained. No being or thing is perfect, nothing lasts forever, everything is constantly changing. You will never achieve a sense of perfection in life if you are lying about your current state of being and denying yourself the truth. This is an ego and fear based way of looking at things as they are not, which is lying to yourself... Discover true perfection in every moment you exist. Experience the present as is, and accept everything the way that it is without struggling with it, or trying to change it to they way you see fit. Once you're in the present moment, you can start to make the positive changes and decisions that you really need effortlessly with no judgment of right and wrong, good and bad. Once you strive to have the right view of true straight-forwardness, honesty, dignity, honor, gratefulness, respect, compassion and LOVE for yourself, you can start to bring fulfilling honesty into the words you say, and into the relationships with people that make life true perfection! :2thumbsup:
Life over? I guess you are very young by that statement.... You can A. pray they never find out B. tell them you were a dick and feeling insecure C. move! You really need to learn from this, you are in control of your own brain. I wish you to make a life that you are happy with and sharing with others, if you are not change it...it really is that simple! Good luck :2thumbsup:
The reson that I started to lie of two things my family and where I'm from, that is why i startede to lie alot of things that i'm not allowed to do so that is why Iam lying to people . If I tell the truth they will laugh and they think I'm loser. Maybe you think that I'm tennanger but I'm not and I know its not good to lie but what am gonna do? Youre right someday they will know about the truth ..
You need to get past what others think. You also need to further your education. You sound like a frightened little person that has a ways to go before you can become a functioning adult. I wish you well and hope you get past this.
