Ahh, the old sex photos....

So this isn't new, a guy is seeing a girl for a month, two, or maybe more and stumbles on her old sex photos.

Now does every girl have sex photos? Over 20 years of age you should assume she does. So if you stumble upon these, how should you react?

The biggest thought that creeps up is why she keeps them around if they're of say, a guy she dated for a few weeks 4 years ago.

Well I'm no hypocrite, frankly if I had sexy photos of me and a bombshell naked I wouldn't delete them that quick either, hell probably make a poster of it. But the ultimate question is how you find these photos, where do you keep yours and she keeps hers?

So here comes my situation.

I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months, started out as a fling but has grown into relationship territory, though most of what we do is fuck. And she's a pro, porn star-esque in her interests and in her execution. We were laying in bed one morning and she was showing me pictures of herself on her phone, skimming through she showed me photos of her when she went on vacation, there are no albums, just pictures, and as I was clicking NEXT on the screen BOOM, I get a photo of her with the tip of a penis in her mouth, from the view of the guy up above, I clicked next to see a picture of the guy blindfolded tied to a bed, a bed I have not been in. I clicked the BACK button a few times and gave her back the phone, making like I had seen nothing.

It didn't stick that vividly in my mind, in fact I'm poor with mental pictures, but it gained my curiosity. I do not question her motives for taking the photos and indeed I would expect she's had practice because she gives head like a master, but what peaked my curiosity was the way in which she's chosen to keep these photos. Judging by her hair color in the photos these are not too old and they are of what seems to be a one night stand because the guy doesn't match any of her ex-boyfriends that I've seen.

Personally, I'd keep my sex photos in a hidden folder titled " camping trip " but that's me, and I would no longer have those photos since my laptop crashed over a year ago with 4 years worth of data on it.

What made me laugh about 2 min after seeing the photos is how she gave me the phone literally 2 photos before these rather risque ones, either forgetting they were on there or thinking they were farther down the line.

Telling a close friend of mine he was shocked and advised me to stay away. To which I replied " are you out of your mind? ".

For I am one of the few it seems that is completely fine with these, indeed I hope we make our own.

But a question arises, what is with the deal of a guy catching a girl's old sex photos? Before she had even seen the color of his shoes, should it matter in the least?

I for one am happy it wasn't a 12 inch chocolate penis I am.

 

my wife has pics with her pussy full of black cock. So, I have pictures of my dick in a chocolate bunny and then some.. dont bother me..

 

i didn't realize photographing yourself during sex was so common.

 

Really? Why not "Greyhound station stall" ?

Have you guys discussed relationship M.O. yet? Seriously, why would she give you her phone if she had that in it?

If it's an isolated situation and the sex is really good, I would confront her about it but not break up. But, as far as I'm concerned, the chances of a committed relationship would now have dropped to 0.333% because she has now proven herself to have poor boundaries.

I have pics of me and chicks and all that, but I can't possibly imagine a situation where a partner would find them unless they were snooping around through no fault of my own (which has happened in my previous cases of psychological abuse ).

I'd be cavalierly wounded and go have revenge sex with a pony. See I am the victim.

 

why would any self-respecting woman or man photo a good time? they are either narcissistic (which often comes with exhibitionism), or histrionic (which definitively comes with exhibitionism).
i prefer to not get involved with people who have no respect for themselves.
cellphones are easily hackable and those photos can be put on free or paid porn sites by any old hacker and you would never find out about it.
THINK, people! use your brain.

 

Jesus christ you guys are a bunch of prudes!

Theres nothing wrong or weird about taping yourself having sex, why WOULDNT you? because you're afraid somebody else might see it? well i tell you what, i like watching those movies a lot more than i am scared of them being hacked or whatever.

Going and doing a porn movie for some cash is a lot different than taping yourselves privately and the world gets to be a peeping tom.


I think it just makes people feel insecure (even more than they already do) and because it makes them feel like crap they develop this repulsion for something that should be fun to do. You're just going to have to get over it. If you think that because her last boyfriend had a bigger dick than you, that he obviously fucked her better than you possibly can, then you're already going to be lame in the sack. But hey, ive got a big dick so im just talking out my ass.

 

Little girl (or boy), you cannot justify the fact that you have taped yourself having sex. And I am not asking you to. But do not come on a forum where little kids are and encourage them to think it is normal and OK to do this. It's just stupid and inappropriate and coincides directly with personality disorders.

 

wow, you have some problems

 

Max I don't think sex pictures are anything to get alarmed about. It's so widespread nowadays as to consider it a normal part of sex.

Only thing I would be bothered by is if she's letting a dude take pictures of her sucking dick if it's a one night stand.

That part would bother me. A steady boyfriend doing the clicking wouldn't bother me so much.

 

I kind of understand this better actually.

Consider that in a relationship both parties are likely to have the photos, so in case of a break-up either could use them in a malicious way.

A one night stand usually means only one party has the photos, and there's likely no intent to use them maliciously unless unforeseen events happen.

This girl has admitted to having one night stands and I was careful with her on the STD front and now that's cleared I have no problem with her past.

To me it just seems she has perhaps a collection of these, I actually see this no different than if a buddy of mine had a collection of sex photos of his one night stands.

She and I both enjoy sex and she's very open on that front ( I am currently working on some possible anal, etc ) and I would actually expect this.

I find it laughable how some guys can overlook a girl's amazing cock sucking skills and high sex drive and be stunned when they find out she's either had a lot of partners or did a lot of experimenting with an old boyfriend.

If that's the case so be it, I'm enjoying myself right now very much.

But I guess it does put a wedge into thinking seriously, I mean with a girl like this I'd have to spend a good amount of time before considering any serious commitment myself. We are monogamous right now but we spend a lot of time together, I do get the sense that it would be hard to maintain a relationship if we spent a week apart on a consistent basis. She certainly needs attention.

BUT, I'm still in college and I like getting laid.

 

Ahh, I actually. I think its wrong to tell children that taping yourself having sex is wrong, because it isnt, and your giving them phobias that shouldnt exsit. If kids are taping themselves having sex... SO WHAT.. they're already having sex. a 13 year old taping herself having lame sex with her boyfriend at the time or whatever is not the same thing as exploited children made to do something against their will.. Its not young people having consentual sex that is the problem, its kids being molested and raped that is the probelm, but you dont seem to understand that.

No shit you're not mentall equiped to be having sex at 13.. but they still are.. shit, I dont think i was mentally equpped at 18. if you're a virgin at 30 you're still not prepared your first time. Im not saying you're supposed to be having sex at 13 by the way. I dont think there is 'an age', thats foolish thinking. all you can do is try give your child the tools it needs to survive in the world and hope that it can make its own wise decisions. If you're worried about kids reading this and ??running out and taping themselves having sex with a stranger?? then you probably havent been doing your job, because i dont think that well adjusted and properly raised kids are going to go and do that, even if they read it on the internet. But they might like to see what they look like having sex while being silly with their boyfriends for fun.

 

And if you paid attention you would be able to plainly see that the busiest forums here are the SEX and DRUGS forums, the number of people who read those forums dwarfs anything else. Oh noes! children are doomed! OH NOES!
Save the children!!
better deletes the hipforums.

 

because i'm busy enjoying the sex?

 

The male ego is a sensitive and delicate little flower.

 

None of this delicate flower crap- where's the videos?
Gotta check them out and make sure they're authentic. :afro:

 

I think you answered your own question.

 

I must say, this is a very entertaining thread

I have never video-d myself having sex. My boyfriend has expressed interest in it. I honestly don't have a real problem with it - other than being paranoid it will get out and my parents or someone will see it.

I do however have a few pictures. I keep them secure in a locked folder on my external harddrive.

But honestly - for all the people saying, "ooh your girl must have boundary issues if she's got sex pictures. I mean, MINE are hidden!" - - whether they are hidden or not you STILL have the pictures - - so technically, boundary "issues" still apply.

And honestly, if she is more open about it and doesn't have anything to hide - props to her. She might not get a serious relationship, but if your ok with it - which it sounds like you are (this is to the OP) - then I wouldn't worry about it.

Now the real question is - has she ever expressed interest in taking pictures / video with you?? And if not, why? Of course, it's not a big deal. But its an intriguing question just the same.

I would be a little worried about keeping pictures like that on a phone though - you never know how they might get out!!

And to the lady who thinks people are exhibitionists for filming themselves during sex - you need to get out more. Yes, it's not for everyone. It certainly does not have to be for everyone.

However, do a little research, talk to some human beings and you will find its A LOT more common than you think. For many couples - or just people - visual stimulation is a big deal (especially for men). So when they take pictures or film themselves and then watch it, its exciting! Its not narcissistic. Honestly, I wouldn't want to watch myself having sex - - it'd be a little weird for me. But that's just me. I know LOTS of people that really enjoy it - and for many it helps their relationship.

 

I don't know about any of you, but I haven't seen any 8 or 9 year olds on this forum...nor would I let my children (which are non-existent at this moment) go on this forum until they are old enough to handle adult matters that are on this site.

I, personally, have never video taped myself having sex, although I'd like to...finding old pictures like that would freak me out, but I think its just because I am a very "in the present" type person who feels as though having memories like that of an ex or an ex-fling or whatever shouldn't be around in places where I could see them. That's just me, though...I wouldn't do it and I wouldn't expect a guy I'm with to, either. If they want some nudie pics of me, that's fine, but not of someone else.

As for pictures, I've had a few circulating of myself to ex boyfriends, flings, whatever...but I made sure it was to people I trusted wouldn't keep them and they didn't...they were spur of the moment type things.

 

Well we are monogamous so it'll eventually lead to more serious thought, and this kind of past behavior is not favorable. I'm no hypocrite as I have had flings, but it's the measure of how often and to what end.

Ultimately any man has to face the question, " is she wifey material?"

Personally if she makes me happy and comfortable and is able to provide me with kids, I would never use something like sex photos or string of one-nightstands as a deal breaker.

 

As long as I know she's disease free, I might kinda LIKE those pictures, I dunno.... Depends on the girl and the situation.

Sounds like she wanted you to find em.