Female with question about Porn..

Quit bugging me about my enjoyment of porn...

 

Yes it is...

I have had the same experience with two perfect strangers in a steamy threesome. Why feel sorry?

I love being single and I feel that because of it, I have been able to satisfy pretty much all my fantasies and experiement with many different women as I saw fit.

I don't want to be married for 19 years. I plan on staying single and freaky. :2thumbsup:

 

I´m afraid I find this a curious notion. What's so unrealistic about it? Nothing in porn is something that doesn't actually happen in reality.

Granted, there is lighting and camera angles...and photoshop. :biggrin: But there is nothing unrealistic about women who are very fit, and take care of themselves and are great in bed.

I will agree with you that it may be unrealistic for average women, but it is certainly not unrealistic for all of them; I can tell you first-hand experience. Maybe I'm not looking for average women, in that regard. Maybe I'm looking for the exceptions...

And everything that goes on in porn due to media technology, that women cannot do because they are not computer programs or digital cameras, well, I can figure out for myself, thank you very much.

I´m a man and therefore stupid, but maybe not as stupid as one would think in spite of the outrageous bulge between my legs.

 

simple solution, star in a porno film.

 

Probably is worse for guys, if the world was as it is according to porn then all guys have a 6 pack and a 10 inch dick.

As a girl, least you can like go on a diet or even get a boob job. Guys cant get a dick job


Of course I just realised mainly basing that on gay porn, guys are usually hotter

We dont have a Ron Jeremy equivalent, now thats a laugh, when she looks like she's straight off the catwalk but he looks like a taxi driver. If I was a chick that would piss me off. The message being girls have to starve themselves but the guy doesnt even have to wipe the pizza stains off his shirt

 

yeah, most guys in straight porn are old and/or fat. and then there's the guys that are in decent shape, but they have the douchebag goatee and sunglasses that they wear the whole time, making them look even douchier. and then there's amateur porn, where the guys usually look like a 14-year-old virgin, and fuck like it too.

 

When my fiance and I first got together her computer was running slow. I opted to help fix that, her hard drive wasn't that big...she had 8gbs of porn on it and deleted the whole thing. I was miffed. Not because she had 8gbs of porn, because she deleted it before I could see any of it.

 

I'm not going to read all 7 pages.

5. Tell him "Why watch it when you can do it".

 

watching porn once in a while isnt bad
reading this honestly made me laugh because my bf and i have had so many arguments about porn and........other things that turn him on
we have amazing sex so it pissed me off that he watched porn all the time
but really getting off on something new once in a while isnt anything to fuss about
im sure he still cares about you much more than any porn video
sometimes they just want to get some new ideas and they're curious
i know thats why i watch porn
we finally came to an agreement that if he watches porn its with me
haha tho im sure he still does on his own sometimes
i just liked being included in it even if it kind of annoys me sometimes
just know that even if u get him to stop-he wont. lol the temptation to look at other ppl having sex is too strong for guys aparently



ive had a lot of experience with this haha all in all i wouldnt worry about it unless it gets out of hand. talk to him about it though ask him what he likes about it and stuff and he probably would like to know that your interested it might even turn him on more.

 

i watch porn with my hubby i love to see him get turned on by the girls in the video then i suck him off or have sex with him and tell him to give to me like he would her.men are going to watch porn why get upset or jealous over a girl he will never meet.

 

:devil::love::cheers2::2thumbsup:

 

Wikipedia "penis enlargement". The safest method of increasing length is this inflatable implant that lets the man get a hard-on whenever he wants. Compared to that, some of you guys aren't even trying! :devil: There are some (risky) girth surgeries out there, as well.

(Something that just came to me while writing this - This thread is about insecurities, so I wonder how insecure a man would get if he found his girlfriend had searched for "penis enlargement" all over the web? I hope I remember to explain the Wikipedia thing to my boyfriend before he stumbles across my web history. )

 

well from the mans perspective there is one thing porn is probably giving him that he isn't getting or hasn't had. most likely a fantasy that he has not yet fulfilled or so on. Not to get into your personal life but if you have "boring sex" and do the same repetitive thing it gets old. add a few new moves to your arsenal maybe hop on the computer and see if you can find a trend in the porn he is watching. maybe you can watch some with him. best idea and one any guy would like. take porn off the computer and put it right in front of him. you are way more exiting in real life then porn can ever be. some may call it being a slut but if its with your bf then its more like having a healthy and exploratory sexual relationship which will make both of you much happier

 

Be careful though. Once you see it, you can't unsee it if you know what I mean.

I hate accidentally stumbling upon people's porn history when I'm using their computer. I don't want to know that the guy living right below me likes grandmas if mine happens to pay me a visit.

 

i used to feel the same way as you smokeinyourface, especially when my bf and i were around the same age as you and yours. i tried everything to get rid of it, this was almost 10 years ago where it was like download it and burn it to a cd, so i'd throw out all the cds i could find, hide them, scratch them, to no avail. he just downloaded more. so i just got over being jealous about it. that's what you will have to do, just get over it. to argue with him about it or constantly talk to him about it is not going to make things go away or get better. he probably hides it from you because he knows it makes you feel sad. think of it like this, he's just watching a video or looking at a picture, it's not like he's having sex with someone else. believe me, that hurts way more, and if that were to happen, i'm sure you'd forget about the porn thing real quick like.
btw, do not let him take a video of you or pics of you, unless you don't care about others seeing them. my bf took pics of me and kept them on his ipod, then his ipod got stolen out of his car, so there are naked pics of me out there floating around and i feel sick every time i think of it. so even if you trust him to not show them to any one else, there's always the possibility of others seeing them beyond his control!

 

This is very true...I think by seeing what my ex was watching, it really made me feel worse and made me more insecure in the bedroom.

If you aren't on common open grounds about porn, seeing that can do a lot more damage then good in my opinion when you see what they are watching without knowing about it beforehand

 

If it is real scary, disturbing porn where the girl is clearly getting abused. Or involves scat or farm animals. It is time to leave him forever, and run away as fast as you can.

 

very good point never thought of it like that