Two recluses

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by onetimeuser, Feb 26, 2011.

  1. onetimeuser

    onetimeuser Guest

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    What happens when they get together? I always hear about yin and yang... the opposites attract, the extrovert pulls the introvert out of the shell and the introvert keeps the extrovert from flying out of control (not that introverts are always the same as recluses)... but what of the two yangs? Is there hope for them as lovers?
     
  2. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    My opinion is that there's always hope, and that it all depends on the compatibility of the two parties.
     
  3. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    Im a recluse, and I never meet anyone, and have no social life. How is someone who truly is a recluse, meant to meet another recluse, when they never interact with other people? :p
     
  4. walsh

    walsh Senior Member

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    Um... you can't just label two people 'recluses' and expect that to fill out their entire personality. People are complex, they can't be reduced to a single word.
     
  5. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    I'm A Recluse, Have Been Since My Last Relationship Went "Bellie Up", And I Would Be

    Happy To Hook Up With Another Recluse...:).

    I Guess We Would Spend A Lot Of Our Time Sitting And Cuddling Rather Than Hitting

    The Party Scene, But If And When It Happens, Trust Me You Will Be The

    First To Know....:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
  6. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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    This only happens in films.
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i'm pretty reclusive, and i would love a reclusive girlfriend. we could spend time together without having to go and and deal with other people and all that bullshit.

    internet?
     
  8. RobynCB90

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    I'm a recluse - but I go out to the bar, maybe twice a month. I have to be coaxed, though :p

    I think I could date either a recluse or not - they could change me in some way and make me a strong extrovert, who knows?
     
  9. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    Absolutely, one of my best friends is a complete homebody and married another homebody and they have the best relationship out of anyone I've ever known. One never feels pressured to go out just to please the other person; they are both content to sit at home and enjoy each others company.
     
  10. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    You'd still have to go out and meet them if you wanted a relationship. :p

    There is a difference between preffering to stay indoors, and being a recluse. A real recluse would find it extremely difficult, if not impossible to forge a close relationship with anyone.
     
  11. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    make them come to you.
     
  12. Invisible Soul

    Invisible Soul Burning Angel

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    That could work... providing the other person isn't as equally reclusive as you. lol
     

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