Hi, Great forum, can anyone advise me please. I have read 4 books on how to give a woman oral sex, Im now very good at it (so I'm told). I also ask for feedback from my girlfriend which she gives me but she gets shy sometimes. The one thing it doesn't mention at all about in the books (which I'm a little surprised about) is the best way to stimulate the clitoris DURING orgasm & this has any effect on the length of your orgasm. Can anyone answer the following questions please:- i) in the seconds before you orgasm (when u know your about yo cum) do you like faster & harder stimulation of your clitoris? ii) I know that the clitoris becomes very sensitive post orgasm, but DURING orgasm do you like: a) the same intensive stimulation on your clitoris as just prior to orgasm. b) gentler slower techniques c) no further stimulation during orgasm And would any of the above (a,b,c) make your orgasm more intense or last longer? I'm going to ask my girlfriend these questions the weekend but wanted to 'throw it out there'! Thanks & best regards
I find stimulating the clitoris during orgasm prolongs and intensifies the orgasm. Don't be too rough, but be firm and strong in your motions. Maybe slow down and do it harder, rather than frantically trying to make her clit break the sound barrier. See what works.
All girls are different. Generally I would think it's nice to keep going but some girls don't want any pressure at all when they start to orgasm. There are no wrongs or rights when it comes to sex, nobody is the same.
Keep it going at the same pace and pressure until orgasm is over, then stop. It's too sensitive to touch at that point.
I agree, but I think each woman is different, considering some doen't even like clitoral stimulation.
Try to find this awesome PDF "e-book" by Ian Kerner (or is it Kermer) called "She comes first". Your girl will be VERY happy you did. (msg me if you can't find a bittorrent file for it)