I just noticed how wise BackdoormaN is, I have questions and he most probably has the ASS!... I mean answers. Moment Of Truth: Dear Mr. Backdoorman, How do you deal with CLINCHERS? Seriously, I'm tired of telling the girl to relax, while I'm breaking out the extra-glide lube. Maybe I should try tickling...
Dude, she's clinching because she's not 100% willing to do it. Good anal sex requires physical and mental preparation. She must want it hard in the ass so her brain will not fire the nerve signals to clinch, but open up. I suggest taking a shower first together, then give her an enema. With no fear of shit to ruin the moment, it will help your girl relax and enjoy the moment. Start by getting her into the doggystyle position, make her spread her ass cheeks wide apart, then you bury your head in there and kiss her asshole and go along with her signals for more until you get to the point of making out with her asshole. Then you put in a finger, hook it and pull on her asshole and by this time she'll be dying for anal sex. Get your head in slowly at first, then work your way up to rough anal sex and you will finally be in anal heaven. The key here is to go along with her motions, especially the motions of her asshole. Be patient and work up to it. If she is still hesitant, I suggest breaking up with her and finding an anal whore instead. That will later prove to be the best decision in the long run.
This is the goal we seek here. The objective is to turn the girl into an anal whore, enough that she will want a fist up her ass. No clinching with this anal whore, who is certainly worthy of half my marital assets. We love anal whores!
