So I've been seeing this Aqua man now for a month and we finally had sex for the first time last night, after weeks of texting and being flirty and sexy and i have to say it was ordinary, don't know because it was our first time, but it was very medocre. Do Aqua men warm up eventually in the bed or was the the peak performance? This is my second Aqua I have now dated, I like Aqua's but this one is a complete mystery to me, or is he just shy? Any insite welcomed, I just want to sort this out in my head to make sure its worth the journey if you know what I mean.
I am an Aquarian, apparently we are mysterious.. but I tend to be pretty shy, mainly when it comes to females, especially first time having sex. It takes me a while to get warmed up with a person. I am not someone who can just jump into it with anyone anytime anyplace. I am glad I am not like that too. Keep moving forward on your journey.
I think this guy is my journey, I just have to dial down my appetite and let him come up to speed so to speak, I think you hit the nail on the head, no pun intended, he seems the shy type and needs to warm up to it all.
You have to remember that people are not just their sun sign there are many aspects to a persons natal chart the sun being but one of them. Astrology aside sometimes the first time isnt the best some men are nervous (and some women) and it takes a few goes at it to get a vibe on each other sexually and find out what the other is like. It's still possible you will get into sync with each other. Keep us posted though id be intersetd to hear how it goes
Well, it's like you said--you guys have only been dating for a month--your relationship is still in its "getting to know you" phase--so I wouldn't judge him too harshly on his performance in bed! I'm sure it will get better over time! Besides, I'm familiar with this combination--my little sister is a Libra, and she's married to an Aquarius--they've been married for almost 14 years and have 4 kids! Seriously, though--give it time! I wish you blessings in your relationship!
The thing about texting and stuff is that you only get to know like a shorthand version of the person. I've had 3 relationships with women I met online and its really strange at first cos you meet up and suddenly see things in the person that you couldn't have known from texting etc. I think give it time, esp. if this guy is your journey BUT remember you don't know yet how much of your journey revolves around him. I just spent 8 months with a woman who was definitely a major part of my journey (as I was of her journey). We reached the point where we'd learned a lot from each other but needed to separate in order to grow with what we learned. One of the biggest lessons for me was that I can't have sex with 2 dogs barking in the room. Another one was that sex is important in relationships but it can do more harm than good.
My experience is that our Sun Sign is the Intellectual side of us - the part that thinks about the Future. Aquarius is Intellectual Air anyways so sex isn't something we (I am One) think about. Now if he would have a Taurus or Aries in with Aquarius then that part of him would make him more geared to be curious about sexual things. We are all more than our Sun Signs. To really know anyone you have to look at their Rising, Moon AND Sun Signs and the Mix of Traits from all 3 is what makes us mostly act the way we do. Check out - Our3Minds.com If you find this guy has mostly Expressive or Intellectual Signs then Sex is the furthest thing on his mind.
