wow ok so i got super drunk the other night and i somehow ended up making out with my bfs friend who is a girl. Ive never kissed a girl befor and idk he seems ok with it but would it bother of you other guys?? i just dont want my bf to be weirded out by me or anything. I know some guys like that kind of thing but i verywell might want to mary this guy one day, not be a 3d porno for him. lol Do you think this will change us because i feel horrible about it.
it doesnt matter if it would bother us, it obviously only matters if it would bother him and it seems he doesnt care so dont worry about it. if you are that worried about it, just ask him.
just accept it, it happened. at least you know not to do it again if it makes you feel awful. alternatively, you could persuade him to neck a dude. even steven(s).
It's impossible for me to know, but he seems to have already answered that question. Personally, I would ideally like to commit (emotionally) to a girl who liked girls and who would like me to participate.
If he gave you the go ahead...well, then it's looks like you're alright. I had a similar situation happen a few years ago at a party and up until recently I've felt guilty about the whole thing. Then I realized, it happened more than a couple of years ago and well...my boyfriend is still here. So, I guess it wasn't a big deal.
So what is the moral of this story? Don't get drunk enough to become a lesbian (I'm assuming you are a female)
if kissing someone made you feel bad you must have caught a virus from them.. i'll admit it's a little annoying when teenage girls think they're being edgy by kissing another teenage girl at a frat party, but i would certainly not dump someone over it.
Hey...I wasn't a teenager when I did it and I wasn't trying to be edgy, I was being drunk and horny. I've never felt more like a dude, I've gone to GREAT lengths to avoid her ever since then, because I hated her before it happened, but...I was drunk and horny. lol. I'd probably never do that again...but I dunno, maybe if a chick who was actually attractive and not a bitch got me drunk...
Oh well, this kind of stuff happens more often than meets the eye, especially when drunk. I'm just glad it occurred in safe environment both for the OP and for Ramona. I think that, if your partner is accepting of something like this, then it's nothing to worry about.
You don't want to be a 3d porno for him.... BECAUSE you might marry him. That's a fucked up way to look at things, and it ALWAYS leads to trouble. Because you love someone does not mean that sex can or should lack, as if to prove how MUCH you love them. Have a good time, do what you want to do, if it doesn't work for the people you're with, you shouldn't be with them, for a relationship to work it must be honest and without repression. That said, you should be very careful about those IN the relationship forming emotional attachments with those OUTSIDE the relationship. Also, don't catch anything, be safe.
if u plan on kissing more girls, and his ok with that, then its ur choice. but speak to him and tell him what u want and expect and what he expects also, coz some times people get into things coz they think its fun or excites them, later to find that once the fun is other it can leave things a lil messed up
i kissed a girl and i liked it hope my boyfriend don't mind it if he does. then it makes him gay and he'll run of with a dude one day i kissed a girl just to try it