My Boyfriend wants to have a 3some??

Last night i was hanging out with my bf and his cousin which is a guy. My bf come and tells me he wants to have a 3some with me and his cousin. I will admit im a bit curious, i've never done anything like that before but would it affect our relationship? I mean if everyone is ok with it will there still be a bad thing. i really care about my but he seems to want to do it pretty bad but i dont want to me us up.

 

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(Seems some members have a cousin thing on this site)
No offence jumper ( I know it's your boyfriend), just saying.

I suppose, if his cousin were from out of state and planned to visit occasionally this would have less risk of complications. Yet, If the cousin is on the scene regularly..That could be tricky.

If I were you and I were in Love and desired a long term relationship with my BF I'd consider this to be too risky.

 

Make sure you pay a little more attention to your actual boyfriend and everything should be aiight.

Take the double dicks!

 

what? lol

 

Sounds like they want to double team you

 

What he's getting at is the majority of sex forum posts by people with a low post count seem to have an incest/family theme to them.

Threesomes can be tricky.
It may or may not put the relationship at risk. Sometimes people think they can 'handle' it but get weird during or after the event.
Is having a threesome important enough to risk something going wrong? That's up to you both.

If you do it, do what Death said and make sure your bf gets a little more attention and better reactions than the other fellow.

 

What he's saying is, he thinks you'll be fine if you're sure to pay more attention to your boyfriend than his cousin, if you choose to do it at all.

.......And what I meant earlier was; I had read another post someone mentioning something about their cousin, that's all.

 

hit him on the head till he's seeing double and fuck him twice:mickey:

 

Although I know that both suggestions are meant to be helpful for your BF's ego if issues were to arrive....Maybe there is a concern about how you may be treated after ward...and besides I'm not sure pretending during any sexual experience is worth the hassel, Then maybe it's just me.

 

Kinda depends on how much you like your boyfriend. If you pretty much just enjoy partying with him - or kicking around on Saturday night - go for it.
If you REALLY like him it's just too much of a chance to take. It could very well warp his perception of who and what you are.
Call me old fashioned but I'm not sure I would have much respect for a guy that wants another guy plugging the one he loves. There are different kinds of intimacy - and I don' think two guys balling the same chick is the type you would want for the long term.

 

You should be worried about whether or not it will affect your relationship if your guy wants to have a threesome with another girl. This just sounds like he's gay/incest

edit: I just realized what else it could be: he could be doing this with another guy so that maybe in the future you'll be more likely to say yes to a threesome with two girls. So if you're more comfortable with that I'd ask up front if that's what he really wants

 

I have a long relationship and try every combination with my wife...just experience in your sex life can make full sexual pleasure.Also we have toys and other "things" that will take to you to many or longer orgasms!

 

i'm sure incest in the troll community is probably not frowned upon.

 

Yes, I think that we are not talking for that kind of combination...Do u want to tell something about it or just asking ?

 

Sounds..yes sounds..>BUT WHY ??? to me sounds strange especially for my men side...Maybe is time to ask yourself is he love you ?

 

if you two are bf gf, im surprised a guy would ask for another guy to be involved. I always assumed they would rather another chick. Plus if it is his cousin, even if he is BI, I doubt he is hooking up with him...be careful. Just remember you can always still do it, but once you've done it, it is done

 

Yes, after is done NOT Can't BACK >>.That's not decision to JUST to do it..and still wondering why you like more another guy, then chick