Hello. I am Tina (yes, I am new) My partner is a lesbian and was married for 11 years to a woman, I have been married for 4 years to a man..... lol anyways.... I like penetration, but she doesn't. I am clueless into pleasing her. She is quite happy watching me cum rather than me giving her oral. She doesn't like any penetration what so ever, so I am doing gentle licking around her clit. My tongue now hurts as she took forever!!! hehe I am new to this as this is the first woman I have been with. At the moment we have been together for over a month but I have liked her ALOT for 7 months.... (she was a huge fantasy when I was married, now I am the happiest woman alive!) any tips or help would be most appreciated!
U know those back massagers that are like flat and vibrate u can use that it gets the job done without penetration. Also they really get the knots out of ur back.
work on your tongue muscles and stamina, LOL. What about like feathers, or light objects? Light fingering, grinding pelvises or grinding other objects. I mean seriously, if she is not fast to orgasm, she can't expect you to be down there tongueing forever, every day!?
hmmmm, I never thought of light objects. she likes it real gentle and deffo likes to rub against me. she takes forever to have an O..... but I seriously could tongue her all day
Well, me and my girlfriend Alexis hardly do any penetration and we can still have great sex. Instead of penetration, I suggest you and this woman get fully naked and trib. If you do it right, it feels amazing! Not only does it feel good, but there are endless positions you can experiment with. The only downside to this is that you will get a good workout, so you may feel worn out afterward. But I think its worth it.
I agree with Slayer. Does she like her tits sucked and licked? I can almost come just from that if it's done right. Dont just focus on that area to start ...brush her hair kiss her neck and whisper dirty things into her ear.. gently massage her ass (cheeks) and around her inner thighs get so close to her pussy but drag it out make her ache for you to touch it.. Kiss her inner thighs, breathe hot air real close on her pussy and give her soft gentle kisses on her clit then slightly firmer wetter ones... the trick is to tease her slowly and work up to the tounging part..
Wow...very well said..dark...that's hot! I agree...a little teasing..goes a long way. You follow each of those steps one by one...she will be begging for you...dark made me miss sex lol.
I want to add to Darkhorse's statement. Yes, it is wise to tease her. It works most of the time. However, I recommend that you make her wear a blindfold while you taunt her. This will have a dramatic effect on her arousal. I also suggest you display your body in its full glory. Remove each article of clothing and you can begin. You can either do a sexy dance, masturbate, or hump a pillow. Have her watch your every move and she'll want you. If it fails, you can simply watch each other masturbate. When you're about to cum, lean so that this woman can feel your warm juices. This will really turn her on. Also, you can sit on her chest and rub your clit against her breasts. Hope this helps.
these are great tips! Thank you so much!! I haven't been on for a while, but sometimes I want her SO bad I just can't hold myself back and just go for it. I love licking and she tastes so good. LOL!
