Summary...First Love Ever..happened a couple of years ago...she lives with another woman of 15 years now..and we had a passionate love affair up until last year. Now..i call her..she calls me...she's invited me over when her g/f is at work..just to hang out. As recent as last week. I do not talk to her often..and we haven't been intimate for almost a year now. But my question is..since she invited me over and we hung out last week...does that mean there's a chance that we may pick up where we left off and she misses me? Or..is she just being friendly but distant hoping i will get over her? I am confused and she doesn't express how she feels as easy as i do. She always knows exactly how i feel. I have been naive in many ways..and would just like to know what she's thinking. Any comments appreciated...thanks in advance.
She lives with another woman, and has for 15 years? This may sound harsh, but if she's in a relationship and she's messing with you, I wouldn't go down that road. Especially a second time. If things work out with you how will you know if and when she's messing with someone else? Anyhow... The only way to truly know what she is thinking is to ask her. You can drive yourself crazy trying to analyze her actions without just coming right and asking. Good luck!
Thanks for your advice...i have a hard time throwing questions like that at her because it's always like pulling teeth to get her to tell me what is on her mind...i don't want to be a heavy about it. I do understand what you mean by going down that road...but she is not the cheating type...and i am the one that pursued her. I really don't think she would ever cheat on me...that may be gullible...naive...blind...or whatever. But..she's not like that. It just happened...we were friends and it was just natural. I still feel bad about it because it's not something i would normally do either..they are as good as married...they been together so long. But...doesn't change what my heart feels...she is the one....i just wished she believed in communication in relationships..the same as i do.
