Contemplating first time with a little bondage

i've always had this fantasy of having anal sex while restrained. i have a friend (former boyfriend from my teen years) who is willing, able and whom i trust completely. we're going to do it.. but i have to admit, i'm as scared as i am turned on. i know you have to go slow at first but i guess my question is - is it realistic that within one session I can go from first enema, to first insertion to a real pounding? any advice would be appreciated.

 

It's possible, but you will need to be VERY relaxed, and he will need to do a damn good job in making you aroused. I had some solid pounding the first time i did anal with the gf. don't use too much lube or you won't get any friction and it won't feel as good

 

I don’t know if guys are the same as girls when it comes to anal, but if they are I find that although it may seem like it’s better to start of slow and stuff, it’s much better if u just ram it in. sure it hurts and he’s all squirmy and winey but he usually gets over it and from then on its great.

 

does light bondage include a gag? if not, then just use a safe word...agree on some rules before you do anything. Yeah talking about do's and dont's beforehand can make it not as spontaneous or whatever but 1) youve already done some planning ahead and 2) stuff like dicussing how far is too far or safe words will prob help you relax knowing your partner knows it too

 

great advice - thanks. by the way - I'm a woman...

 

We started just a month or so ago. At first it was a lot of lube and tolerated it. Worked our way up and just last night she craved anal and I did it and she started squirting and kept going even after I came in her ass. Definitely something to get into.

 

TA you just described a fantasy of mine. I always wanted to tie my girl up and get some anal action. But she's not that into anal as it is. So I guess I just have to be thankful for what I get. He's a lucky man!