Okay, so this new guy I'm dating has this scar.. on his cock.. and to be honest, it kind of weirds me out about giving him head, which really sucks for me -and him, really- because that's one of my favorite things to do, and I've been told more than a few times that I'm very good Hes pretty self conscious about it, and I hate the thought of hurting his feelings by bringing it up.. again.. but I like him, and I would like to be able to really give him head, not just tease him.. Any suggestions?
you cannot make this post without providing a back story on the scar. without more information, i can't even say for sure that there is a dilemma. if there's a dark spot where his rabbi nicked him during the bris, then just put it in your mouth and you won't see it anyway. if he tried to fuck a deep fryer, then he may just want to invest in a fleshlight.
lol.. Sorry I wasn't specific. Its a burn scar. He fell into the campfire as a kid and his nylon shorts kinda melted to him. I'm just worried about texture.. I think it would be.. less than sexy if I were to take him completely in my mouth, and then gag because of the texture of the scar tissue =\
have you tried explaining why u dont wanna go down on him? i mean, about the worrying about gagging part? let him know its not that you find HIM weird, its just the scar, and then go from there. Or better yet, just try it once to see! Yeh the texture may be different but its not like he's gonna taste like fire and burnt nylon. Start slow - run the tip of your tongue on the scar tissue to get a feel for it...literally lol or even start with ur hands! After you try sucking on him and still cant tolerate it, then u need to talk to him about what you could do so oral is fun and feels good for both of you? I can even give you ideas no.1: suck his balls instead! good luck and hope it all works out for you two!!
Whats' the dilemma? If oral sex doesn't create discomfort for him and you'll only know if you ASK HIM. If it does..you'll have to ASK HIM how it is comfortable for him to receive pleasure! GET OVER the scar and he'll be less self conscious.
Let me ask you this: What good would it do to bring it up to him again? It is not as though he can make it go away. Have you ever sucked a circumcised cock...they have a scar as well.
I don't really see why it would make you gag. Its not like its going to smell funny or taste weird, it will just be a slightly different texture. It probably won't even be noticeable. You should just give it a try and not worry about it too much.
assuming he had a competent doctor, the circumcision scar should be completely invisible... slightly different from a burn wound across the entire thing.
.............HOLY PENIS ABUSE BATMAN...with this as the cause, have some compassion; cover him with chocolate sauce (Or anything tasty) and go to town!
ouch! that is what I have to say. OMFG just thinking about back in the day with those Nylon shorts and them melting to my cock. makes me wince just thinking about it. to your question, I guess you don't know until you try it. If you really like him im sure it won't bother you at all. The condom idea may work but honestly I hate condoms and would hate a blow job with one on. Plus I think he would really be upset by you asking him to wear a condom why you blew him. How do you explain that?
Wow, lol.. this got more replies than I anticipated.. Well, I thought about it and I decided that I really like this dude so I'm just gonna go for it... I did, and the scar was not an issue To be quite honest, I really couldn't even tell it was there, and I kind of feel silly for letting my mind build it up into something bigger than it was But now it's out of the way and I can please my man like I want to without any hang ups Thanks for all the advice eace:
I know right?? But it's not across the entire thing.. Its just a small scar about 1/4 to 1/3 of the way up the shaft from the base.. Its kinda raised is why I was worried about texture - its kind of like a small keloid.. but like I said in my last post, its not noticeable at all during oral
