Hey I am new here on this board but was just was wondering this since I am kind of new into possibly being a nudist. So anyways I will ask, if you and your family are at a nudist beach what are you more worried about having your children seeing? Gays and Lesbian nudist or strange straight nudist that you never seen before. Thanks if this is too much info I understand I just ran into part of this scenario before at a nude beach.
If you are worried about your children seeing others on a nudist beach then best not go there. There is general rule that on a nudist beach nudists behave in the same way as textiles do but just don't wear any clothes. Unless people behave sexually it is generally hard to be sure of their sexuality.
No I was not worried about that I was just worried about what parents thought about perves near children and or gay's or lesbians around them.
Gays and lesbians will look over solo guys or girls or family nudists; they were all once kids and will see them too, and the kids, them. It's not necessarily anything with intent. You're in the company of nudists of all types of alignment at a nudist beach, not just those you prefer to be around or see or experience — get all your threads off and all of a sudden you are a human being like all the naked ones around you! Nude beaches do have problems. Now, perverts are a more threatening proposition. Kids at nudist beaches have reportedly (to my knowledge) been 'handed' by these types. I would advise that parents keep a close eye on where the kids wander (especially if clothes-free) and observe/report any suspicious or unwanted attention (guys repeatedly walking up and down, or close to a family of nudists with kids is a specific form of "casing" and should be reported — I see this very often). Solo woman can come in for unwanted attention, especially if they are face down below the dunes in view of the funsters hiding therein. Unfortunately perverts to tend to pepper nudist beaches e.g. the one I go to is blighted by them hiding in the trees in the sand dunes, soliciting sex (oral, often in view of the beach) and approaching solo guys. In January, an arrogant 70-something in a flashy white thong and gold bling who lunged out from behind me and grabbed me by the dick with an insincere "Hello!" was promptly docked. Here we go! The Police investigated me for assault, but I countered with unwanted advances and sexual assault. He has since been charged with 8 counts of doing the same thing (!) so at least he's not at the beach now! I now only go there with my partner. Sadly, the police don't patrol our nude beach: they have their hands full with crime and petty thefts at nearby textile beaches. The caveat is a bit like buyer beware: have your wits about you, especially with kids.
It depends on how you raised your kids.Generally,nudist kids don't have issues,and nudity are'nt odd to them.On nudist beaches/resorts,unless its for swingers,there are ethics. Gay nude,is still nude.But occasionally u will find the odd gay sexuality on a beach,and/or hetro.If your child is raised propper,he/she will ignore it.I raised my son liberal nude,and he had no issues As teen,he had the occasional wood,but he saw it as normal.We once walked in on a wanker on the beach,and he just went by without a word,coment or question.
I just saw a video on Mtv. It was two hood guys (looked all tough) they were holding hands and kissing in the video. This blew my mind. I'd never seen a music video like this before. That got me wondering - I just sat down at a for awhile, at a friends house. What do our children do. I don't get into videos. Kids do! So they know, wheather or no or not. Kids play it off to appear to be innocent. They have discussions about sex at school and outside and even at their friends' house, away from you. When something sexual happens, I ask my kids about that and (most of the time) they know already. It's hard for a parent, but that's how it is now. When I was growing up, they didn't have commercial about increasing ones penis or vibrators. They know!
On any nudist beach I would be most concerned about perverts, gawpers, pests, call them what you like- the type of (usually) single man who any regular visitor to a nudist beach could spot a mile off.
