hey its me and i need help

ive become very selfish and need all the help and tips i can i wanna be a better person

 

put the needs of others ahead of ur own

 

Do, say or think one thing each day that has no benefit for you other than being a nicer person.

Before long, you will be doing it all the time.

 

i don't give tips, except to my bartender.

 

Eat a shitload of acid.

 

LOL k will do

 

listen to Lolli's advice!!!

 

Think of others before yourself. Put their needs before your own. Think positive that you can take the steps necessary to be a better person. Before long you will be doing it without even thinking about it. Best of luck to you!!

 

wait...how do you "become" selfish? Isn't that something embedded in your being?

 

just floooww man,gently,peacefully,and everything is roses:sunny:

 

Instead of viewing yourself apart from everything, remember that we are all connected and part of the same system. Essentially, if you help someone else, you are helping yourself as well because you are bettering the environment and the world around you.

 

i agree with miss bunnie:sunny:

 

so, are we supposed to know you?

maybe we are, i didn't question it 6 months ago when i posted in this thread...

 

I feel yah on that one. When I first met my old lady I was not used to being in a long term relationship, I was on my own until I met her. We used to have a lot of arguments because of my selfishness, but not so much anymore. I have found that if you take the time to think about how your words, thoughts, and actions before you act on them it helps a lot. Just take the time to stop and think " how will this affect my loved one or whoever it concerns, and what can I do to show I care" This helped me a lot. I still struggle with it because selfishness is something that is instilled in you from a child. If you need to talk or anything you can always PM me. I hope this helped.