Is it normal not to finish during a BJ. I was with this girl last night and she was giving me one but I didn't finish. After doing some research I've found a few possible options. 1) Not long enough, it was only a few minutes. 2-3 at most 2) Nerves - I haven't gotten many blowjobs before and I really like this girl so I was nervous about it going right. I kept thinking 'what if I don't finish', 'what if I don't stay hard' and after a minute or two of not finishing I started to think there was something wrong with me and I was kinda panicking inside. It felt good but I started worrying and I could tell I wasn't fully hard anymore 3) Time of day - it was quite late at night and I was very tired 4) Not used to it- since I haven't really had many before I'm just not used to finishing from them so maybe that's why? I'm able to get hard and masturbate just fine. And I'm able to get hard and stay hard when I'm hooking up with this girl at other times, but last night was the first time she went down on me and I couldn't finish and by the end wasn't even fully hard. Later on in the night when we were just making out in bed and what not I was able to get and stay fully hard so I don't think I have anything wrong with me. What do you think
The problem is probably 1, 2, 3 and 4. Some things are worth taking the time to do right. Try again when the situation is better. We are not machines.
Problem is it was only 2 or 3 minutes, you crazy man? You can't cum like that. Next time make that bitch finish you off, even if it takes 5 minutes lol
I'm on meds for epilepsy that, like anti-depressants & beta-blockers, have a detrimental effect on the time it can take to reach a climax - if at all. While many may envy this delay as being increased stamina, there are times when I really wish I could climax within a typical 10 - 15 minutes, or less, of sex. As it is, it can take me over an hour, by which time I can be getting pretty physically exhausted, and my partner can be getting quite sore. The problem is not in maintaining an erection - which can sometimes be a problem in itself, as an extended erection can result in quite a painful aching, bruised sensation. Curiously, though, I am not affected so much in reaching a climax when I masturbate so, more often than not, this is the way I have to finish my sex sessions - sometimes ejaculating over my partner, sometimes in my hand, or sometimes by returning to penetration when I feel the impending climax, so as to experience the full internal orgasm.
shit man i can't come from 2 hours of oral. it feels like heaven times a million, but it's not the right kind of sensation to make me orgasm.
Letting someone else control your orgasm can be tough...especially when youre used to cuming on your own, cause you know what you want, when you want it, and what it takes to get you there. You have to let go...just enjoy the sensations and dont let "cumming" be the final goal, otherwise youre setting yourself up for (possible) dissappointment. When it does happen though, its crazy insane. Fucking mindblowing...a different type of orgasm almost. And DEF worth the time spent getting there! One suggestion: TALK to your partner! Communicate what you like, etc. We cant read minds ya know!
don't worry...the world isn't ending. Someday, you will have the most intense orgasm when a girl is slobbing your knob. You've gotta be patient, young grasshopper.
Yeah what the hell is her problem freekin cocktease. When I was a young lad a girl blue balled me so for a week after that I didn’t cum I fuckin saved that shit up and when the week ended we hung out and I got her to do it again and I came so much the shit came out her nose. Chick won’t ever blue ball again.
I dont know for sure...but maybe u rilly like and respect this girl and that was the issue. I think as ure with her more...and r more comfortable w/ her...u will have no trouble staying hard and finishing.
Dude, don't worry. Everybody said that already, but all those things combined, no wonder you didn't cum and IMHO 3 minutes are not that long. When girl gives you a BJ without a grip it always lasts longer.
