Cuddle Buddies...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by ahimsa, Dec 6, 2004.

  1. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    Hey,

    How many of you have cuddle buddies, friends who you just cuddle with but nothing really sexual? I'm just curious what you experience with these types of things have been.

    Peace
     
  2. snelio37

    snelio37 Member

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    that would be nice.
     
  3. gertie

    gertie Senior Member

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  4. Disarm

    Disarm Member

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    I do, well I did but it's not a great thing to do when you have a boyfriend so I don't do it anymore.. It's really nice. The problem is that the guy generally thinks its just a step closer to getting in my pants, so unless i'm in a relationship it doesnt work, but if I am in a relationship I don't want to do it! catch 22, I guess.
     
  5. whispers

    whispers sweet and sour

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    i am currently a cuddle buddy thats available
     
  6. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

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    I'm waaay too horny to just snuggle with a guy, I end up getting turned on & want the sex. What can I say? I'm a nympho I guess...
     
  7. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    Outside of pets, I've never had one. non-sexual intimacy outside of someone whom I'm dating just seems wierd. I enjoy a hug from friends and enjoy giving them a hug, but cuddling with them would just be akward.
     
  8. Nightenchantress

    Nightenchantress Member

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    I do occasionally....and am currently available to be one...
    but somehow (like most everyone else) it tends to get sexual (not always my of my doing)

    :confused:

    I wonder why that is?
     
  9. Lucifer Sam

    Lucifer Sam Vegetable Man

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    I've cuddled with and even slept with a friend...
     
  10. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    yeah I love to cuddle and had one up untill about a month ago we would just cuddle and kiss but I don't have one when I'm in a relationship as it's not fair...obviously.
     
  11. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Awww, I wanna cuddle with someone now. :(
     
  12. Nightenchantress

    Nightenchantress Member

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    I'll cuddle with you Kozmic
     
  13. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Awwww, yay! :) Thanks, sweetie. I've got a cuddle buddy!
     
  14. Nightenchantress

    Nightenchantress Member

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    YAY! *cuddles and huggles*
     
  15. Hipkatmeow

    Hipkatmeow Member

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    I desperatly miss snuggling! I did with all of my friends in highschool... and no one snuggles in college its so sad!
     
  16. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    Cuddling is rad. I have a few strictly cuddling female friends. I think its almost childlike.

    PEace
     
  17. juicy_redgirl

    juicy_redgirl Daphney

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    When I don't have a boyfriend I have lots of cuddle buddies...I like having people to cuddle with. :D
     
  18. yemforbin

    yemforbin Member

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    me and my ex became cuddle buddies for a while, but her new boyfriend got jealous and mad so we had to stop. also, when me and my friends go to folk fest every year we seem to pair up in cuddle buddy pairs for the weekend. even when some people are dating. it's an unspoken rule of sorts, you can have a cuddle buddy who isn't your significant other as long as both parties agree. that way there's no silly jealousy and everyone's happy. cause who doesn't want a cuddle buddy when you're camping?
     
  19. white ginger

    white ginger Senior Member

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    ahimsa are you a guy?

    i used to have an awesome cuddle buddy. We'd have long discussions on what to call our relationship.. came up with 'friends that cuddle a lot' hehe.. but then we started kissing and that progressed a little... so now if anyone asks we're 'going out' 'seeing each other' 'gf/bf' etc. I am passionate about cuddling though :p
     
  20. Nightenchantress

    Nightenchantress Member

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    poor child! what college do you go to?!
    Here at my college a lot of my friends and people I know love to cuddle!!
     

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