Anal sex help please! Gross details, my apologies!

Hello there.

Me and my boyfriend have quite a lot of anal sex and I really enjoy it however regardless of whether he cums inside me or not, although most of the time he does, I experience something I've un-affectionately started to refer to as 'squelching'. By squelching I basically mean that sometimes immediately after although mostly between an hour or two afterwards I have the chronic farts and have to go to the toilet to basically squeeze out what I like to refer to as juices but basically a whole mixture of things I'm sure. Anyway I have pretty much no control over these 'squelches' and they can last for sometimes even the rest of the day and so I have to walk around clenching my bum cheeks to avoid having an accident (although I don't mean shitting myself, I definitely have to clarify that, maybe dribbling is a better word).

My boyfriend is pretty well endowed so I'm wondering if that might be some of the problem but he is incredibly sensitive to my needs and always checks if I'm okay and enters me very carefully and slowly and never makes me feel gross for any of the side effects I've described.

Apologies for the stupidly frank and rather gross way I've put this but this is the reality of the situation and I just want to know if there is anyway of minimizing these effects as I love anal and really don't want it to be continued to be a little bit ruined by my thinking of these annoying after effects.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated Thanks xxx

 

don't let him cum in ur ass

 

Its called AIR.. .

Not trying to be ignorant here.... But you ever try to squeeze a wet rag in a glass?>.. you hear the air come out cause there is nowhere for it to go..
Sure the air could come up your mouth,, then you really got some problems in your intestinal trac..

The Anal cavity is also Self lubing, The enzymes along the colon wall excrete fluid to lube the Fecal matter. Depending on how healthy you are, some people are drier than others, after anal activity the walls the colon being its regular self maintenance and internal lubing enzymes .. Added the lube you use, and orgasm from your partner, there you have it..

if your as active as you say you are.. Wet farts shouldnt even concern you, unless there is BLOOD..

 

Ask your man to do the "porn star" cum.
Have him do the bulk of his squirting on the outside.
It is really quite fun once you get into it.
I find that pulling out just as I am ready to let go and squirting on her gorgeous, gaping ass is a major turn on.
I always push back in for the last spasm.
My wife & I use this when we have to go out after the act.
She doesn't want the dribbles when we are in a restaurant.

 

I agree although I like shooting right in the wifes poop-hole.

Ahh..the dribbles! My wife will try to expel the load right there but some always stays in I suppose.

 

Yes mmm lol. If i cum up my ladies bum she has exactly the same thing as you, the dreaded squelch, and the dribble, cos as she puts it, what goes in must come back out! So i usually dont cum up there anymore, will just like pull out and wank on to her belly or something. The only time i cum in there is if its exceptionally passionate and it would be a shame to pull out. Hope this helps you

 

It's a combination of lube and cum. It helps to go sit on the john right away and try to push the load out. Dh always cums in me so I use an empty fleet enema bottle with just warm water to clean me out quicker. Works pretty good, at least I've never had an accident.

 

This could be a number of things. If you are expelling something other than his semen or some lube, it could be rectal mucus, If this is the case, it usually means the lining of your rectum is irritated. This can usually be addressed with a little more lube.

My wife used to go to the bathroom right after we finished to give my soldiers their marching orders. Now, however, she bears down when I cum, like she's trying to poop. This pushes her colon onto my cock. It not only feels incredible, but I can cum in there without her feeling the need to get rid of it afterward. The rectal valves, which hold feces in the colon until you're ready to have a bowel movement, seem to keep my cum in her colon. That way, she doesn't have any need to go to the bathroom until she has a regular bowel movement.

If I had to guess, though, I think you are irritating your rectum lining. Try a good silicone based lubricant, that may help.

 

Hmmm... I might have to have the old lady try this then. We do mostly anal and I always cum in her ass. Like your wife used to, mine always hits the toilet and shits out the "soldiers".

What position are you using when shes doing the "colon push"? Doggie is our favorite - I can get pretty deep with me and her pushing against each other. Should this suffice or does she need to be on top?

 

Doggie works great because, if you cum past the rectal valves, it won't run back out (of her colon and into her rectum) as you remove your cock.

Let me know how that works for you. You'll know if your getting in her colon, as you will feel it evelope the head of your cock. It feels almost like being in a woman's vagina, but smoother.

 

Motherfucker,why did I read this!!!!!!

 

LOL... I have to admit, it doesn't sound all that erotic when it's described like that, does it?

 

You know I've been here for 12 years or so and never looked at an anal sex thread. The comment I made above was insensative and unwarranted,especially to the OP. Certainly it is none of my business what people wish to do with their sex lives and since this is not my interest,I should not have even been here. So I apologize for being a jack-ass--it was a knee-jerk reaction that should not have been expressed. I apologize.

 

2 possible options: either have him shove inside you really deep and then cum, so its more likely to stay up there (so to say) OR just have the tip of his penis inside you when he comes so its easier (hypothetically) to get the cum out later

 

Ive had the same problem over the years( we all have ) a few years ago after a 3 sum i mentioned this and the lady i was with just went to her purse got a tampon and put it in my ass problem solved now every time I'm done taking a load in my man pussy i put a tampon in for an hour or two and no more accidental messes

 

a tampon could work, but i think it may depend on the viscosity of the cum

 

wear a diaper