Heyy So i think i found my first love hes so spiecal to me. But its weird because its not just that i really truelly care about him but i look up to him alot . He makes me wanna be a better person. When im around him my heart speeds up. But hes older by a little bit and he doesnt want a relationship and i mean i totally get it was the same way before i meet him. We are pretty good friends and i know he like finds me atractive and what ever. But im not sure if i should let him know how i feel ive talk to other guys but noone compares! What should i doooo?
How old is he? Every man mostly has the same thing in mind You arent in love, you arent even with him. The fact that you want to be a better person is great.. do that for yourself not for him, nor that he is around you. You;re 15 you'll meet more guys in life.. I'd stick it around as friends with him (depends on his age overall too)
Hes 17 and i know im not in love with him but i do love him you know what i mean? And im almost 16 so theres not that big of an age diffrence. Like i understand that ill meet plenty of other guys i that ill like im just not sure they will be as great as he is. And i didnt change for him i changed for me but i just really look up to him so aside from the point i like him i really see him as someone who i look up to and get advise from and stuff. So its not like i changed because i liked him because though he did open my eyes up to alot of thing i didnt know or understand before i dont just feelow or agree with everything he says . Hahah does this make sense idk if im but thats kinda how i feel. And yeah im defintaly staying friends with him hes a great guy.
doesn't really matter what anyone says. you're going to fuck him, then come on here in a month whining about how he's mean to you. ii justt don'tt understandd whyy soo manyy girlss typee likee thissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.
Haha well actually i had the chance to fuck him but i didnt and im most likely not going to. And even if i did i dont think he would turn in to a asshole or anything. If he did i defintaly would be whiney about it. I wouldnt waste my time being upset over a asshole.
Dizz, When I first read your post, I was sure I was gonna see that his age was gonna be in the 20's and relieved to here hes close to you in age. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders in the fact that you didn't feel in necessary to jump right in bed with him in order to attempt at keeping him around and/or interested. At your age, things happen so fast, but they also change so fast. Key for you is to not be in a hurry, and you don't seem like you are. Just remember that like some have said here, you will meet others, but don't think that this one guy is the only guy out there that meets his standards, because there are others that will, you just haven't met them yet. As far as THIS guy is concerned, has he shown any interest in you that would lead you to believe he feels in some way like you do? If not, it might be best to hold off on telling him exactly how you feel and just let it progress naturally. If he is truely interested, you will know soon enough. If he has shown some interest, then give him a nudge, you ask him out. Do it in a way he knows its a date and not just two friends gonna go hang out. Whatever you end up doing, I wish you the best of luck. Not having experienced true love at your age unfortunately, I hear its magical, enjoy your ride!
Dizz, dont make that mistake. He's 17, you look up to him, he hasnt pressured you, doesnt want a realtionship - probably cos you are a little too young for him at the moment Sounds like you guy-dar is working just fine You'll overlook the good ones if you get in that habit of thinking they are all about sex
I remember when I was fifteen, I fell in love too. Unfortunately, it was with a guy who got me pregnant when I was sixteen, then abandoned me. But when I was seventeen, I met my current boyfriend, Andy... He's quite a bit older than me too, he's almost twenty six and I'm eighteen... but we love each other and trust each other totally.
It's HER choice if she wants to have sex with him, HER choice if she seeks advice afterwards on the forum. And if she does 'whine about how mean he is' then you don't have to reply or even veiw the thread. growm up and stop being so mean, she's only young.
i never said it wasn't her choice. i just predicted that she was going to do the same thing all other girls who make similar posts end up doing. i don't know what a thread is going to be about until i view it, so i can't just not view a thread because i don't like the subject (yes, threads have titles, but for example, this thread is called "first loveeee" instead of an accurate description). i grewm up and stopped being mean 4 months ago after i made that post.
