Hey, Im an 18 year old guy and pretty new to dating. This seems like one of those ¨If youre asking how to do it, you shouldnt be doing it¨ things, but I would really appreciate some advice so things go smoothly rather than akward and uncomfortable. so, me and my girlfriend (dating for about 2 weeks) have make out sessions on a regular basis.. but ive never really taken it father than that.. (with anyone ) and Id like some advice on how to make things go smoothly. so.. any advice on how to be confident that she´s ok with it before I go for it? how to lead into it, (and if theres something that any girls on here really like done to them, or something guys do that their girlfriend likes) (Ive had other girlfriends, but not many, and i didnt feel like they would be comfortble with that. I think this girl would be into it, but im not positive, and its kind of new for me..)
generally starts with kissing down her neck as low as her clothing will let you and then just say''can i unbutton your shirt'' or ''can i lift your shirt''...she will know why so dont be shy...go for it and be ready to be polite if she isnt ready...good luck
As with what ROLLINGALONG says, I would be polite and take it slow if she does not seem that ready, if she is, great, but still dont be a barbaric jerk. If you want to feel her up, then let her know it is where you want to be going. Be sensual and dont over think it, its nature man, hormones can just take over past a certain point, so just make her come to the same point as you haha.
just move your hand from her back to her side to under her shirt. if she doesn't do anything then just keep goin. do it with ya other hand and then lift her shirt up over her head if she isn't stoppin ya. if she stops you, don't try to keep doing it. just my way...
My advice may not be helpful, but don't be rough. I don't like it when my boyfriend is rough with my breasts now, let alone the first time he had gotten that far. For most women, when you touch their nipples they automatically get turned on, so shoot for that. If she's in the mood, it will probably help your nervousness. Like someone above me said, hormones will take over
May I stroke one or more of your funbags,please? And if that proves pleasurable,may I proceed to the admiration of your clam? If that doesn't work I don't know what will. Did I mention that I am single? No?
Why do you want advice on something you shouldn't be doing? I prefer shared responsibility for initiation and clear, consistent communication. Your gf is lucky she isn't with me, she'd get dropped before it even started...moot point. :biggrin: That begs the question, How did you guys start making out? I would think it's the same thang.
