I'm pretty sure that I'm bi, but I really, really want to have sex with or at least make out with a girl. I told my boyfriend and he says the he thinks it's hot and that if I ever get the opportunity I should do it. But the thing is I don't see how I will ever get the opportunity, and I'm really sad about that. How would I meet up with a girl that I like so I could do that? Because I really want to but I'm only sixteen and don't really know any bi girls, or at least any that I like.
There are all these parties and things going on... so, you go out, make friends, and see where it takes you to... Respect the people you are getting intimate with. Do not make promises you can't (and won't) keep. Keep it on the light side and enjoy the exploration. Stay safe no matter what. Abolish the search for a "bi girl". A bi girl does not have to have any more understanding for your sexual orientation than any other girl around. Adopt a positive attitude that you are looking for some NSA, recreational sex for the time being. Not everyone around may be willing to play but some people are certainly a game. Do not attach too much importance to their real or assumed sexual orientations. Just because someone is bi or gay does not mean that he/she'll be happy to have sex with ANY other bi or gay person. It takes a bit more than that. Last but not least do not bite too hard into any of this. Avoid looking desperate and in great need. This usually turns other people immediately off. Take your time, be patient and try all tricks you know. KD
I don't go to parties, really. Haha. Maybe I should have one of my own. But I have a friend and I kinda like her a lot. I know she has done things once with one girl but I don't know if she was just experimenting or if she is bi. But I really like her. /:
