truthfuly I like so many others am hoping for a relationship, but do i activly seek out someone or wait for them to find me?
try to stay between the two extremes. go about your life as normal, but keep an eye open for opportunities.
Agreed with the above poster. When we are actively looking for it, we never seem to find it. In many situations (not just love) when we "let go" and let whatever happens happen . . . we are often pleasantly surprised with the results. The 2 relationships I'm in now (yes, we practice free love / open relationships) basically fell into my lap. I'm in a very stressful graduate program right now and did NOT want to be in a relationship with anyone anytime soon -but both just happened and I'm glad they did. Be open to the Universe's opportunities for you. Be open to people you wouldn't normally be open too. You never know what might happen And don't get discouraged. Learn how to be happy single - only then will you be able to truly be satisfied with your relationship situation no matter what happens!
i came out of a relastionship last september, ive looked around and seem to find a lot of idiots, ive always seen it that the harder u look for love the less likely it will happen, love has a sneeky way of creeping up on you
dog food is filled with animal "byproducts" which means guts and stuff. Women don't find this sexy. Let love find you...if its meant to be it will...if you hunt for it, you'll end up miserable. Enjoy your dog food
i actually use body language, honestly. it does work, just have to look for the right things and then apply confidence thereafter. a girl who is interested will - stare at you - point her hips toward you - put her hand to her hair or face when she walks past you, with her eyes averted if i catch any of this, i usually speak to them. these girls are the shy ones who don't speak to guys too often. then it is just a case of waiting for the reaction to a conversation. the eyes are a give away - eyebrow raises. if this happens they at least fancy you. if this does, then i keep at it even if they are awkward, because it is often because they are shy and need a moment to adjust. point is, they have sort of initiated it, i've just facilitated it. so i guess the answer is it is a bit of both.
You know what you're talking about. I've never read a more accurate description of a body language of a shy, interested woman. Good for you
X 3 and as Ive heard it stated, if you try too hard, it will be noticed. and you certainly dont want to look desperate. Just relax,,,it will happen...when you least expect it too!
Speaking as a girl. Confidence and being happy with yourself as is makes you incredibly sexy. Talking to a guy who comes off as needy or desperate doesn't make him a bad guy. But it immediately puts him in the friend material box not the boyfriend material box. I think that's why married men and men already in relationships are often so attractive. They've got someone already, so they are confident, they have something about them that says they don't need you and that makes you want them. It's also I think why older men are often attractive as well. They've often got their crap figured out and don't seem as needy. Exceptions to the rule of course always exist. But bottom line, be happy and confident with who you are and where you are in life and girls will notice.
Sorry about that . My advice: don't seek particular people but situations where you can spend time with them while doing things you enjoy (shared interests, hobbies...) Be yourself and figure out who likes you just the way you are and you feel most comfortable with. Good luck!
