Are there any guys on the earth (do you think) that don't always think about sex This

Are there any guys on the earth (do you think) that don't always think about sex
This question comes up because it seems to me like a guy only is interested in a girl based on how she looks or what he imagines that she can do for him sexually, and guys are always thinking about "is this girl hot? is that girl sexy? she has nice tits, her ass is huge, i wanna fuck her, i wouldn't fuck her if you paid me."
I mean it seems that is all guys of any age from age 14 and up think about. All the darn time. Am I wrong about this? This is a 100% serious question. And I am already bisexual so if you people here convince me that I in fact am correct about this, I no lie will just start looking at girls and ignoring guys. I can't take it anymore.

 

No. Much of that is bravado after a certain age. Most men do actually look for something more than a quick bang.

 

I spend probably 5% of my day thinking about sex. If that.

This couldn't be farther from the truth about myself and the guys I know.

Yes, quite. Wrong at least about the "all guys" part.

 

^^^I agree with that guy

Not all guys always think about sex. I know I don't always think about it and, when I do think about it, it rarely influences my actions.

 

well, i wasn't until i opened this thread . . .

 

unattractive girls still get married.. that has to say something

 

Exactly. That's just a stereotype.

Like, sometimes when I look at a woman I wonder if she'd make good sandwiches, and I imagine what she'd look like bending over to put dinner into the oven. Other times I look at a woman and fantasize about her bringing me a cold beer, or vacuuming my floors.

Now all guys think about just sex all the time...

 

Glad to hear that.

 

Honestly, all human beings in general think about sex ALOT. Like yourself for example.. you must have been thinking about sex to come up with a topic about sex, no? I'm sure you see woman talk about sex often.. whether it be the casual reference or some in-depth opinion. It's not that big of a deal. On a more serious note if all the guys you meet only talk about sex you must still be fairly young.. chill out man you got years.

 

it's funny, you say men but go to your average bar

it's the women who are looking for the one night stands, not the men.

 

I've never had a man come up to me looking for a one night stand, but I can definitely agree with the women part. A lot of em are.

 

not every woman or man goes to bars, i do not go there to meet partners

 

When I go to a bar, my only plan of action is to get as intoxicated as possible. If my dick happens to land in a pussy, so be it, but that's not the reason I'm at the bar. lol

 

Woah woah woah there man. Language?!

 

:tongue:

 

We're allowed to swear here...

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lol, trust me. women like to fuck.

 

I could ask the same question about girls since you were obviously thinking about sex when you wrote the above post.

Additional question, would your "looking at girls" not constitute thinking about sex, then? Is it only "thinking about sex" when a guy does it?

 

Yes, there must be! I refuse to believe that all guys are sex driven nymphomaniacs... Some of them really do love a person for who they are inside, and have the ability to take sex out of the equation. They are rare, however

 

the fact is we (most humans, both genders) are driven, as all species are, to reproduce. so sex is important! but there is a stereotype that fits awkwardly. i dont think its that guys think more about sex, but they think more openly. sex has been a taboo-esque subject for too long, guys are not taught properly about it, and neither are most women. women have been cultured to not discuss it, to be a blushing bride, etc. i HATE the way sex is couched in euphemistic terms. and all things pertaining to sex and reproduction too. we are supposed to think its icky. BS. i talked to two people in vitamin cottage comfortably about the Diva cup (i just bought mine, Yay! ive never been so excited to wait for another cycle!) but as open minded as he is it made my hubby uncomfortable. it shouldnt be that way. if we all talked about sex all the time, openly, there wouldnt be any taboo about it. my kid caught be with a boob out, he says "whats that?" i said "a boobie." he asked "do i have those?" i said "you have nipples, but only women get boobies" and he wandered out of the room. when he walked beck by, he goes "i like boobies." and carries on with his day. we have talked about boobies before, and what they are for, but im honest with him always. i will not hide anything from him, because i believe its wrong. my mom honestly answered when i asked her about blowjobs. i did not have to go into sexual activity totally blind. i appreciate that she did that for me. (i have the coolest parents ever)

so, while the generalization is false, it is based in a perceived fact. its a problem imposed by the society we live in.