There is no such a thing called Love

Many years ago... like 2 years ago, I always believed in love, the supernatural thing that just makes you feel good, sometimes suffer, and blablabla

Okay seriously guys... there is no such a thing called love.
Love is sex+friendship.

I believe in strong bonds and stuff like that, (mother and son, sisters blabla) but you know, it is all based on friendship. Love is just a fairytale.

What do you think? Am I weird? bleh :afro:

 

if you can define love as sex + friendship, then it must exist.

 

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I never thought of that, you are a wise man.

 

no, you are wrong. love does exist, but you can love a friend as much as anyone.

 

sure "love" does exist.

it is an interplay of biochemstry upon neurophysiology.

 

I think friendships are just a degree of love.


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Love as a feeling is flimsy and unreliable.

Love as what you do for your lover is much more solid.
When you make sure the door is locked so she'll feel secure.
When you do the dishes, even though its not your turn.
When you (appear to) listen to her stories about her friends.
When you sacrifice together for a common goal (like raising kids).
When you do for without expecting to be done for.

Those kinds of things are love, not the fluttery feeling in your gut.

 

Yes or no. Is it even matter?

 

It sounds supernatural to me.

Or, it sounds like a trophy. Like, "I got this person right here, and I put a ring on it, and I parade it to family, friends, and strangers at the shopping mall by never letting go of my love's hand."

Sometimes it sounds like an economic transaction, like "Love buys me this, or affords me that, or opens doors for me, or pays for my kids' tuition and the home I live in."

Finally, it sounds like "I'm a afraid of being alone so I love."

Lastly, it sounds like "Love's the first, coziest, easiest thing that came along so I love by default."

Both friendship and sex sound like pretty good alternatives to all of the above.

 

I think love is different to everyone,and love can feel and be different to anyone. theres no deffinition to define really what its suppose to be its felt thought and see differently for every person. in my opinion.love can be marrage or friendship sharing common interests or bons like family a pet or a passion you have for something like art or writing,it can be anything to anyone.

 

Then you've never felt it. For those who have, it's undeniable.

 

i dont know, it is just... whatever people say it is just like from books or whatever.
what if you are fooling yourself and suddenly your loves end??
and btw where is the love on the world?? i've never seen a couple who loved each other for so long, my grandparents are still together because they were married a long time ago.
and my parents arent divorced because they want to keep their reputation at the church.

 

meh, I'm sure you'll make your own conclusions eventually. Clearly you're looking for something.

The people who write those books find their inspiration somewhere....

 

humans are not monogomous by nature. Most people will fall in love with more than one person in their lifetime, and its a very rare thing that a love can last an entire lifetime.

this doesn't mean that love doesn't exist. Love doesn't have to last forever to be real.

 

but then what is passion??
love is something hard to believe...

 

passion is when every molecule in your body is attracted to another person.

you'll know it when you experience it.