to confuse or puzzle completely; perplex: These shifting attitudes bewilder me.

are you bewildered?

im just bewildering.

somedays its just best to bewilder, yeh never know what you will get, where you will end up, who you will see, what you will do. bewildering days are great. by the end of the day i find myself so fufilled after a hard long day of bewilderment. eventually you will find something by the end of the day, and no matter what it was, i dident have it at the start of the day so its a great day.

so

do you like to bewilder?

 

I call that meandering (I think we are talking about the same thing).

I live in a big city. One a nice spring or summer night I just meander. Get a bottle of wine/beer, some nice 420, and just wander the city. I might go from Point A to Point B but when I am meandering I never travel in a straight line-I just sort of walk along the way and whatever happens happens.

I don't meander as much in the winter. It's cold. And I usually just go from Point A to Point B as quickly as I can (although there is probably wine/beer and some nice 420 still involved).

Meandering.

 

Same here. I meander around the city, usually grab a few road brews, bring a spliff. Have a sit down by the water, maybe climb a tree or two.

Last year I actually staked a claim on this little cove down by the river. There's a rock island about 20-30 feet out in the water. The water's only about knee-waist high, so you can walk out to the island. Great spot to go sit and have a cold one or a doob.

I usually end up meandering around the city core at some point throughout as well. I can pretty well bike all over the city here.

 

Yea I've got a few key 'spots' that if I'm meandering in the area that I stop by.

Your rock island sounds like a nice meandering spot.

Another thing-you can meander with another person-maybe 2. But they have to 'understand' meandering. Most people don't understand meandering. Any more than 3 people and it's not meandering.

 

Like today, had one mircodot left... took it without telling anyone anything... been tripping alone since 8 this morn... Over analyzed the coffee pot, watched a bee, thought it was raining but was actually people cutting a tree to bits across the street...bewildering indeed.

 

Definitely, group meandering just doesn't work. It becomes a mob.

 

I think its best when I'm by myself though. 2 or 3 people, then you're just walking and talking...unless its my husband. he meanders with me the way its meant to be done.

We fill a backpack with water, wine or beer, bud and cigs...then we just go exploring until we find a place to chill. This is one of our old spots. :love:



Lot of fun times there.

 

Yea that's a nice spot. Nice swimming in the summer.

You can't meander in a car. Bike meandering is good.

You can only meander in groups with people who have no problem when there is silence. There are those people who always have to be talking, conversing, discussing.

A good meandering partner understands and appreciates the importance of silence. If there is nothing to say then you enjoy the silence.

I live in a Quaker town. On Sundays Quakers have a town meeting. They discuss anything that is important to the group. And if there is nothing important they sit there and meditate. There is a saying at the meetings 'you only say something if it adds to the enjoyment of the silence".

 

I love that...more people should be able to enjoy silence. I don't see why so many people are so uncomfortable with it.

People's attention spans and nerves are so haywire...they can't sit still for a moment.