How would you react if one of your closest friends was going to date a transsexual, a ts who looks not only like a really beautiful girl (because she is) but is pre op on the other hand. This is one of the main things bothering me is bringing this up to my close buddies, so I want to see what you guys think. My friends use the term "gay" as an insult, how gay i am isn't the point of this thread, I just want an idea of some normal stoner dude how you would react if your close friend decided to try this? I am guessing kind of suprised/mad/mabey disgusted/amazed I got such a cute "girl" is the way I'm picturing them taking it. I am going to show them a pic of her first though before I say anything. She honestly is the most natural looking girl mtf I have ever seen in my life, a big part of why she drives me wild.
Don't tell any of you're friends until one of them comments on how hot "she" is. Then bam! Look whos "gay" now. I try to keep an open mind.. But gender change is something I don't agree with so much. But thats just my opinion and i'm sure you have you're own.
so she's a woman who is going to become a man, or the other way around? if it was my friend, i would probably make some good-natured jokes at his expense, but make sure i don't cross the line and get downright mean about it. if i were you, i wouldn't say anything until you know your sig other is fine with you telling them.
to each his own man. if your friends cant understand that and be happy for your happiness, its a shame.
i agree totally with this. sure, i'm a straight guy and would probably be shocked by it but def wouldn't be mad or disgusted. everyone has a right to what makes them happy. to stand in the way of this or insult them for it is selfish, disgusting and plain nasty.:sunny:
i'd be surprised, but the way my circle of good friends are, yeah we'd probably joke about it - but it wouldn't be a huge deal. at first it might (just cause it's something way different to get used to) , but it's absolutely ridiculous to think of ending or hurting a friendship over.
Yeah, thank you people for the input we are actually chatting a LOT every day, seems like it could get serious so ya. I kind of expect my friends to react somewhere along the lines of what you all said put together lol. But for some reason I get more nervous telling my family all this...
yupp. this girl is seriously somethin else. like she knows how to be cuter than any girl i have ever met. Guess its just the right way for me Hope she sticks around really hope so. Think i actually love her.
It amuses me when people say stuff like this without really even thinking. Someone doesnt agree with another persons existance, doesnt make you sound like a Nazi at all To the OP: met quite a few transexuals in my time, they do usually seem to be hotter than most girls. Always been perplexed about what is actually gay about it if everything about her is more girly than girly with the exception of a set of genitals. As for worrying about what everyone else thinks, dating this girl might give you a new perpective on things - all the stupid comments you have to take with a grain of salt - from your straightest of straight male friends, never really sure how many of them are rushing home to tug on it thinking about your new girlfriend. And how many of your female friends are just bitchy cos she's skinnier/prettier than they are
yeah theres a part of me that thinks im gay now a little bit, but im ok with that whatever. I just want to meet people who make me happy because they are so fun to be with and such a good person. Thats what its really about for me Thanks vanilla I appreciated ur input
