So, a few weeks ago, my girlfriend just, out of the blue, dumped me. I was crushed, but I managed to move on. The wound was still there and it was sore, but I had reached the point where I could be mostly civil to my ex. Then yesterday, I found out she was dating one of my close friends. I'm really feeling hurt and betrayed by both of them, but when I tell them, they act like I have no right to feel hurt. They're trying to I'm just so angry and hurt and...... It's making me cry. I lost a good friend and a my ex-girlfriend who easily could have been in the friend catagory. In fact, a great majority of my circle of friends kinda revolved around those two, so now I feel pretty damn alone. I skipped classes today to just stay home and cry (I didn't think I could get through it at this point).
i cant imagine how painful it would be for you, but try to recover and move on.i know its very easy to say and very difficult to do.
hey hun, i cant imagine how u feel but yes u do have a rite to feel hurt, thats rather low. it just takes the piss, i wud of been nicer of them to come and tell u to yr face before u found out any other way, but u need to find a way of getting thru it and holding yr head up high in front of everyone cos u aint the one in the wrong hun. u can do it xx
You have a right to feel hurt, but you have to be the bigger person here, accept their relationship and be friends with them both. You can get past this, as much as it hurts, keep telling yourself you are ok.
You do have the right to be hurt, but you have to realize that that's what people do. You found a couple of lemons and should start looking for better. Oh and has anyone ever heard of the lesbian life is like a circle thing? I've had friends of mine do that stuff and I don't think it's right, but it happens. Just try to cheer up and remind yourself that you're better and worth more than that!
