18 year old virgin

These guys submit their GF(s) to constance humiliation with no consequences. Until they get a new victim. This has a awful effect on Women's metal health. And they are likely to ruin future relationships with nicer guys. The World is really f*cked up.

The older you get the less likely you are to find a women who has not been effect by this in some way.

 

I know exactly where you are man. I used to be fat and have man tits, my dick is decent though. I lost all my weight by basically starving myself for a month. Well now all the girls like me. . . except one thing. I can't stand them. None of the girls that go to my school have any personality of their own. Most girls are really stupid although there are a lot of really cool ones out there too, they are just really hard to spot in a crowd of stupid girls. I am not saying you have to lose weight or anything, but I mean I did it. Remember one thing though, don't change who you are. If you say something and they think it is stupid, that is their problem.

 

Nobody loves you when you're down and out either... Most are like that... and I don't get it because that's not what it's about. And quit worrying about "in the bed, in the bed, in the bed"... just find someone you love and be there for each other and everything else negative around you will just go away. Personally... I've never gone out looking. Never. In the sense that I'm only 15 though, but that doesn't matter... aside from that, I've still never gone out looking and only time will tell. Most people act like they're birdwatching for the Audobon society. wtf? You have to figure that in most cases, the world runs logically. But people are mysterious as hell, sometimes.

 

Finding that First Love

The thing is I can sympathise with what Jnic4000 has to say. His postings on this board reminds me of how unfair life is and how weird life can be. When you are 18 and desperate to find your first love life can seem so cruel. For those of you that don't give a shit just skip this post and ignore what I have to say.

The thing is there are reasons why Jnic4000 has yet to find his first partner.

Jnic4000

Some people have had a go at you about whining too much about your situation and telling you to get on with things. Now, first and foremost they are actually right even if they are not tactful.

When I was 18 I was desperate to find a girlfriend. What was wrong? I hated it when some of my friends could just pull a girl with ease and I struggled. Weird thing is most of them are now old and grey and look 10 years older than I do and I'm just 40! So what happened? What is it about men and women that attracts the opposite sex.

When you are 18 you are not very confident or if you are confident you overdo it and your desperation and unease comes across. If you are overweight too then getting a date at 18 or any age will be more tricky but depending on how overweight you are its certainly not impossible.

Your job, your circle of friends and your self esteem and confidence will determine how quickly you grow up. Maturity is important for girls. If you can show a mature and relaxed approach to life then you are more likely to find the girl of your dreams earlier. Humour and attitude also helps immensely.

When I was 19 I ended up in a foreign country and quickly grew up. I lost weight, became fit and well tanned and my personality changed completely. Old friends hardly recognised me and the jealousy that I had experienced in earlier years turned tables. I became so confident, witty and basically a male tart. I was not looking for a relationship. However, I did finally get married early and stayed married for a grand total of 5 years before finding myself divorced and single and back in England. I hit the rebound roller coaster.

Since that time I re married but now what do I find? Most of my friends have divorced and are in the same situation as Jnic4000. In their case they have become overweight and out of luck, boring and give up too easily.

In the Daily Mail last week ( anyone read it? ) they ran an article on the fact that many younger women were seeking older men. Tired of loutish behaviour and immaturity they are actually settling for married men due to the shortage of single eligible older bachelors. What a strange world we live.

So, what about my friends? Well, in this world people have to help themselves and sitting at home in their carpet slippers watching Corrie is not going to help them get back on track with their lives. What would I do faced with the same thing? I would join a gym, get out more and rock and roll. The roller coaster is a great ride into the unknown and you never know where it will end up or where you will get off.

Live like you will never die, Love like you have never been hurt, Dance like no-one is watching

 

you sound a bit mixted up to me but i wish you well jnic4000 thats a bit like me saying im in love with lynsey)sometimes the one you have to get to know is yourself ,hope i dont sound bad ,i mean well peace ,

 

lol great thread peacelovebarefeet ,peace and LOL.

 

I was a virgin until a couple months ago and I am 20. I think young people worry too much about whether they are having enough sex. Just wait til you meet the right person. That is what I did, and the wait was hard, but overall it is worth it.

 

I have found a lot of what you guys have been saying to be true. But the problem is, as soon as I feel a real, deep, heartfelt connection to a girl, some skinny mommas boy with a brand new car totally sways said girl with obnoxious behavior, rude comments, and lies. I drive a 10 year old Lumina, I play classically rooted lead guitar for a metal band, and I literally have 0 buddies, friends, dudes, or whatever you crazy kids call them nowadays outside of work. I work 12 hours a day and the rest of the day is either spent playing gigs or sleeping. I am incredibly devoted to my musicianship and I love my job. I am completely fine with all of these conditions, but I am incredibly lonely and I really feel like maybe I'm one of those people who is just not tied to a soulmate somewhere. I am happy with my body and I like my life, but it seems that all girls want now are to be lied to and showered with gifts. I just can't afford to spend my money on a flashy car or totally rad threads. Not that I would, I guess. I dunno. This thread is more of a vent than anything else, but I do appreciate feedback. If anyone wants to speak in a more articulate format, my AIM name is Jnic4000 too.

 

That was quite possibly the funniest thing ive ever read on these forums, yet mean none the less.

Anyway, have you actually tried to get a girlfriend or to go on a date? I mean, girls dont usually want to come to you, they want you to go to them. Approach a girl, any girl, and just start chatting. Even if she rejects you, you are getting practice. Eventually youll find someone you connect with. Also, try going to one of those speed dating things. You meet like thirty different girls for like two minutes, then when they ask which ones you were interested in, just put everyone and hope for some responses, get some expierence dating even if you dont really connect with the person too well.

I noticed you are newer here, hopefully you stick around, most of the newer posters are assholes and you dont seem to be. Hope you enjoy the forums.

 

Well said... dont rush yourself - I was 21 when I lost my virginity and when I did it was with a guy who I was in love with and it was so special. I will never ever forget him and will always hold a place for him in my heart. Pretty much everyone I went to school with all lost it young and had numerous partners before I had even 1. I can definitely say that it was worth the wait and have turned out alot better for it. I now have a beautiful boyfriend who is a little older than me and we couldnt be happier - it is ALL good... He has so much more respect for me that I waited till I was 21 to have sex and that it wasnt a 1 night stand, it was in a relationship that was meaningful to me. I had plenty of opportunities prior to it actually happening, but never did because I just didnt think it was worth it....

Best of luck and dont stress!!

 

Do you really want a girl who's so material? I mean, if she falls for someone completely opposite you, she's probably not good gf material for you

But, you should probably get some buddies outside of work.... no girl likes being a guys' only social connection beyond work. Surely you can find some musician-types to get along with?

 

awww I'm a virgin too.... *hugs*

 

oh and I'm 18 as well

 

hi icreamchocolate, not maney left .....hope you still have the receipt =) if you are still a virgin ,fair play to you peace and lol ,