Disappointed

So this is about this girl that I have been talking to for months, she just tells me that she is an escort for people who pay her for sex, she hasn't done it before but needs to do it to get by because its all she can do. Well, this is driving me crazy it is the ONLY thing about her that I DREAD besides how she hates drugs. BUt really? That is disrespect selling your body. Just pathetic. I just want to judge her harshly because it is sad and disappointing to me. I don't know if it matters so much that I should just get over this chick. If theres a problem then this is it, and its me that has the problem. She uses excuse like you think I like to do it? and said "I HAVE to do it to get by" wow. otherwise I think im going crazy for this giirll

 

sweet...

 

Thanks bro for saying that... dick

 

wherever you post...i'll be there

 

couple teams make more money.. you need to have a business mind in the sex/escort field .. Escorts dont really have sex immediately . Hookers DO. Escorst work with clients to bring develop a nsa relationship that knows what each other wants.... I know a lot of hookers, that become escorts. you kno0w I pay you for an hour but really /ive im tapping the pussy I could cum in 15 minutes if I wanted to.. Not getting my moneys worth Ask girls to clean my house, dishes, help paint, clean take out trash, cut my hair naked, wash my back with me in a shower < no sex required just wash and hit my back with the hot water jets, lemme play with toes, play dress up with me.. Whatever/. Ive made more escort girls my friends than "Ive ever meet other girls. Its the best dating service ever..

 

So are you saying that I making too big a deal out of it orison? it is really a turn off

 

I often see sex between peoples as no bigger deal than shaking hands.. I expect protection be used. and no secrets.

 

Thanks orison, idk mabey I could be more open minded but still, the idea of anyone with my girl doing things I don't want ANYONE doing, makes me fucking sick to my stomach. Mabey I am too jealous of a person to handle this. I mean I can see myself allowing her to do that when we go out, but I feel like its gonna make me sick emotionally.

 

smart hookers dont use drugs btw.. They use their money to buy nice clothes, cars, jewelry, housing take care their real Man in there life......

 

If it turns you off, it turns you off.
It is a mistake to think that either you have to change your feelings or she has to change her behavior. Recognizing that it is a mismatch is also an option.

Neither of you is obligated to change. But that lack of obligation shouldn't prevent you from seeing clearly.

 

become her fulltime customer

may be it's her way of telling you that she wants you to start giving her cash ^^

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

I lived with two working girls when I was 22 (18 years ago). They'd pull up to 2 grand a week, which is triple that in todays money.

Lost contact with one.

The other put herself through Uni, is now head of HR for a multinational, on an executive salary, owns like half a dozen houses, married one of her rich clients and they have three kids.

If I was born a straight chic, I'd probably have done the same.


Starfish - anytime you put put for a guy so he does things for you or buys you pretty things, its a form of prostitution, and you all pretty much do that at one time or another, thus.....

Edit: Sorry thought you were a chic. Sorry again, but your comments do just sound like you're peeved she wont do you, why do you care?

 

yeah it really sucks I am thinking this is the special girl for me but this is the thing that is fucked. Don't have enough money to bribe her not to go do that stuff, she seems to just like me for who I am Like this is the nicest most caring funny person who is beautiful its like she from my dreams :/ sorry gettin all mushy it is love n sex forum tho.

 

being a prostitute is never the only option. her view that it is tells me she's got issues. now, if it is just the choice she made, then more power to her.

 

yeah, it seems like there must be something seriously wrong if she has to do this against her will..

 

As far as selling your body, any manual laborer is a whore.

 

A manual laborer sells his labor, not his body, he works hard and uses his skills, which results in production.

A prostitute uses her 'private property' to profit she sure makes efforts as well, but they are concentrated around speculation on her 'property'

Hard work and skills are subject to respect, while there is nothing particularly graceful about obtaining a financial advantage from your possessions, just because others don't have what you have and they need to use it. It is respectful if you just share it instead. A prostitute's goal and purpose usually are an easy and quick ride towards profit, for the sake of which they even agree to put aside their feelings.

 

I don't think its right to judge her. If it turns you off and you find yourself looking down on her, you need to cut her loose and stop seeing her.

I don't know what this girl's situation is. Maybe she has issues, maybe she feels like it really is her only option. Its very sad when girls feel like they need to turn to that, but the last thing she needs is a judgemental boyfriend.

If this made you lose respect for her, you shouldn't be with her. Everyone, even prostitutes, deserve someone that respects them.

hah that statement sounds silly as hell.

If she can't respect herself as well, then she's probably not great girlfriend material.

 

totally. understanding may be, but respect? respect kind of means that you agree with what you have respect for, you think it's the right thing to do and respecting it you sort of encouraging it. so no. I certainly wouldn't respect anything like that. but I can understand their motives