Hi everyone! I have been dreaming about love. Being love with a girl. It was so wonderful. The strange thing is, I can not believe that I could ever feel something like that. Mostly because I do not believe in real love. Does true love really exist?Does a functional relationship exist?Or is this made up by desperate people who are not capable of confronting the sad truth, that everybody dies alone?
love exists. it happens when you get fascinated by and attached to someone on many different levels. love does not guarantee a functional relationship though imo
i am always alone but i never die, accepting that truth means i fly every where forever haha, life is easy and simple and free, and lucky and magic and beautiful, and love is who i am or not, and that's a choice, so you can spin into hell by being worried and you can choose to not accept your own experience, but i will be Here right now living my life and accepting my self as the creator of all i experience, and therefore i will always be alone and in love with my self !!! ::))))
I guess it all depends on your definitions whether you think "love" exists. But psychologically, I think we're capable (or most of us at least) of feelings of profound attachment, which we call "love." Do you think you could ever feel for a person in real life the way you do in dreams? I don't see why you couldn't. You're basically the same person in your dreams as you are when you're awake.
I think that often 'not believing in love' is a coping mechanism for people that need more love in their life. For some people, it's far easier to be calloused and bitter than to admit they're missing something, or someone.