Need help on how to make my girl orgasm..

I've been seeing this girl for about a few days now..about four days.. Our relationship, at least for now, is just physical. Now, here's the thing.. I go down on her and finger her and she says I'm really good and amazing and all..but I just can't get her to orgasm..she says I've come close but it just doesn't happen. I probably go at it for 20 minutes on average until she goes like.."ok ok..that's ok.." then backs off.. during the first couple of times, i think it was because she's worried that it's taking so long and I'm working so hard, she feels bad about it.. last night, she said that she's just getting to a point where her vagina is so sensitive and she's too sore...

I haven't really asked her but we've had some long conversations and I think that she's slept with at least 5 guys. She says that she never enjoyed receiving head from any other guy before me. She says I'm really good at it but for some reason she just doesn't get to the point where she actually orgasms.

As for technique..I try to get her psychologically warmed up and stuff by texting dirty and etc hours before I see her.. she even said I made her blush..on two separate occasions. I do a lot of foreplay, kissing her everywhere, not going straight at her clit when going down on her and quite a bit of teasing.. if you guys are familiar, I've watched Jack Lawrence's video on how to eat pussy and one other video, with Sunny Lane and Nina Hartley..these were both part of the Seymour Butts How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ video..

My technique, during the main part where I'm already going at it has been mainly an up and down stroke with my tongue on her clit with a lot of sucking..I also do it like I'm making out with her pussy.. I am also simultaneously fingering her G spot with the "come hither" maneuver and I also so the same motion with my fingers facing down.. this one I learned from the Jack Lawrence video..

What do you guys think is going on here? Am I overstimulating her? Maybe not making her build up in excitement enough before I attack her clit? I'm gonna ask her more questions tonight about this...

About two nights ago, she orgasmed with the help of a vibrator.. I ate her out for quite a period of time but she just didn't come...and then we were both getting tired so she asked if she could use her vibrator and I said ok, she took it out, I kept fingering her G spot and it didn't take long and she came.. One night, she said I came really close, she was like "Keep doing that.." but then I got so tired I just couldn't keep up the same speed and rhythm and so she didn't come..but she said I was really close..

Last night I wasn't as tired or anything but she just eventually said that she needed to take a break because she was getting so sensitive and a little sore..

As for her level of excitement..she gets pretty excited..like all the tell tale signs.. moaning, whimpering, saying stuff like "oh my god100x..you're so good, feels so good...etc" and gyrating, pushing her vagina on my face, grabbing my face closer to her vagina..legs twitching and shaking..all that..but she just doesn't get there..I'm so baffled..

Any help would be great..

 

go side to side on the clit fast and light.. but every lady is like a beautiful flower that blooms in different colours and different times... my chick is so easy haha finger the g spot and she squirts all over the place in like 3 minutes

 

Next time she tries to stop it don’t listen keep going u get that job done buddy. Try being more aggressive be a man act like a bear in the woods a hungry bear and take what u want from her at the same time giving her what she wants.

 

I did that last night..she said stop a few times, I didn't listen..but eventually she pulled back..she said that she was getting so sensitive and a bit sore..then after a bit of prodding..she said she felt like she was gonna pee..I think she was about to have a G spot orgasm, prolly never had one before and wasnt sure about it...

 

Tell her next time to just pee if she has to

 

Dude, are you serious? Ever heard this riddle: Why do women fake orgasms? Because they think we care!

 

Backdoor man, why don't you just give him tips on how to finger her asshole? If her vagina is too sensitive, maybe she's open to anal play..

 

Backdoor man is psychotic but he's right here.

Sounds like she's faking it.

If you truly want to make her cum talk to her about exactly what feels best. I personally can barely stand having a guy go down on me, but I absolutely LOVE getting fingered.

It took my boyfriend a little while get it right but after a few times and me explaining the kind of movement I liked best he's gotten very good. He makes me cum first most times we have sex. Though, on occasion, I just ask him to take me immediately. I don't cum from ordinary sex but I do get off on pleasing him.

 

Sometimes even if something feels extremely good, it's still not the right kind of good to make an orgasm happen. Blowjobs are one of my favorite things in the world, but I can't come from them, I can't even get close to cumming, but they feel INCREDIBLE! So it could just be that. It could also just take a little longer man, you've only been dating her a few days. She might need more time to warm up to your touch. It took me like 6 months to be able to cum from sex with my gf, so don't give up