Well, this isn't exactly my deepest darkest secret, but I feel like I'm a huge freak of nature. I catch myself looking in the mirror a lot, trying different expressions and smiles, different angles, trying and hoping to see something I like about myself. I have an extra large head, extra large chest, and extra large hips to hold my giant head and chest up off the ground. Yep, everything on me seems over sized... well, almost everything... Well I try to have a sense of humor about it around other people. If someone says a joke about the size of my head I'll smile a bit and laugh some, but when I'm alone with myself in front of that mirror, these things really, really bug and depress me. And it's not like I think looks are really important, I know they aren't. I don't know, maybe I only think I think that looks aren't important?
Wait till your sixty - and you see photos of yourself from 40 yrs ago- -Me and my G/F- who is also 60 laugh at ourselves all the time- behappy jjack
I hate the way I look too. Maybe it's just because my sister is drop-dead gorgeous and I'm average. I try not to let it bother me too much though.
I have many flaws. Thick ankles, small nose, dark eyes, a little baby fat under my arms... Anyway, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My boyfriend thinks I'm beautiful. That's all that really matters to me. Sometimes little things other people don't really notice are magnified to ourselves 10 times. Don't let it get to you.
I went to school with a guy that had a huge head..a really long neck and as a bonus his torso was disproportionate size to his legs...he also had an extra finger we called him Ostrich
:rofl: Well, I think the truth of the matter is that looks do matter. They aren't the most important thing, but they do affect the way people respond to you and think about you. Else, we wouldn't struggle with how we look so often. My face has gone out of style. I got them old-world, deep-set Polish eyes; they look particularly bad in photos. I've never struggled with my self-image too much though, because I was too worried about my penis-size and boring personality =P I think the important thing to look at, is not how much it sucks to be you, or how great it would be to be Brad Pitt; but just how much worse it could be. Self-image is a little problem to have compared to starvation, slavery, or living in a war-torn country. In the end, you just have to accept yourself. There's plastic surgery, which seems to go wrong way more than it goes right; and then there's the option of growing pride in other aspects of yourself. Other than that, we can be whoever we want in our fantasies That's easy for a beauty queen to say.
Yeah. I dont think Im ugly or anything I just have some self-esteem issues. We all have shit we need to work on.
naw..he was human..great guy too just his mom was a drunk while carrying him and caused lots of weirdness
I look in mirrors too, each mirror, most people do, it's a natural curiousity of what you look like. Each one I look in makes me look different, so you really can't trust them. Some make you look bigger, some thinner, some even change the formation of your face, it's probably because of the bends in the mirror or something technical like that. Everyone's definition of beauty is different. I hate the color orange, and many other people probably do too. well there are probably another group of people who love orange. I've looked at people and they're faces even change, each time I see them, perceptions change, individuals actually see faces differently. if you like how you look, great. find someone who likes you too, so you have something in common. does it matter? no. personal preference is all that matters. flaws? flaws? flaws? what defines a "flaw"... who makes that standard? There are so many fetishes in this world, one mans "flaw" is another's fantasy.
