Pregnancy

I need a psychic's guide in helping me figure out who the father of my unborn baby is. I'm trying to use my intuition with this but it's not quite working. The story of how this happened is long, complicated and troubled. I also feel like I want to be with the father of the kid and be a family. So is the father my ex husband or the new guy? I really don't know which is better or who I'm supposed to be with. Thanks for any help.

 

here is the voice of your baby . the language
is root universal .

baby says : eh sh'pi eh

eh is a concern with physical.

let there be a physical , embracing love as family . isn't that a
child's best wish of all ? all heart's involved here have good vitality .
the new guy is of home and of continuance . the Ex is all good vibe and spirit connection .

i wonder if you might focus your intuition on touch , as in how a man holds a child .

 

I don't think you need a psychic, I think you need Maury.

 

Lots of people seeking psychics would be better served by seeking their own hearts and thereby becoming their own psychic guides.

 

Stop pretending you need a psychic, you need a DNA test!

 

thanks for the helpful replies as for the person that said I should stop pretending..well you know nothing about me and I don't need your judgment...

 

This is the interwebs, my dear, we're all judging you all the time.

 

"Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools speak because they have to say something."- Plato

 

I hope you realize that the aforementioned quote applies to you also.

 

I don't reply in threads I can't offer anything to. I also don't speak when I don't need to. I've always been a quiet one.

 

This.

If you're not sure that both of these fathers would be happy to be in that situation, or if the new guy isn't prepared to play daddy, you BETTER either have an abortion or set up an immediate adoption.

To do otherwise is playing emotional games with you, your child, and it's prospective fathers. And to get a psychic would be an emotional game.

Figure out what your current situation is, make sure someone's ready to be a father if you're going to keep the kid. It doesn't matter if the father is genetically similar, what matters is that he's counted into choices concerning this NOW, and treated as a father and given the rights of a father, and that he's willing to step up to the plate, without caring who's genes it is he's taking care of.

Read this post, and then read it several more times.

 

Whats the proper etiquette for when meeting a pregnant single young women? Should one say 'I'm sorry' like sympathizing not apologizing. Or, Congratulations? This happened the other day. I didn't know what to say. She was jobless and almost homeless.

 

You say congratulations, a baby is always a blessing.

 

I am not seeking advice from non-psychics. But let me give YOU some advice. NEVER, EVER, EVER!!!! advice a woman to have an abortion. First of all, it is not your body. That was very rude of you! You are also not a woman. Do you know what a woman endures during an abortion??? You will never know. Adoption?? You have got to be kidding! This is going to be the most loved child in the world. I have so much family around me supporting me through this and they already love this kid and I'm completely in love too. I never said this kid wouldn't have a dad and if he didn't that would not matter...that does not mean it needs to be aborted. Where does your logic come from?

 

Rainy: Get over it, this is the internet. If you're that insulted by someone you don't even know, you shouldn't be reproducing anyway. And a baby is NEVER a blessing.

 

I'm not insulted. I'm just giving advice because I know women don't want to be told to have abortions. And where does YOUR logic come from?? You think I'm insulted therefore I shouldn't reproduce? What??? If you think a baby is never a blessing then you should never reproduce.

 

I never will reproduce. For one, it is not possible, and for two, I hate babies. They bring nothing but pain, and misery, for more than 18 years.
You complain because people are giving you advice, you need a fucking DNA test, not a psychic, grow up and enter the real world my dear, you have a dependent, life is shitty. And yes, if you are that easily offended, I feel sorry for any child who goes through life as such.

 

Also, my last two replies were addressed to the two other posters. You had to butt in though, which brings me back to the quote I posted. The quote solely applies to you in this thread. Good bye.

 

If you're not offended, then why are you still responding? You're only satiating my need to me mean to people, and you are taking my bait quite delicously.

 

Yes she needs a DNA test to know the outcome, yes it's important that a baby have a father. However, advising someone to get an abortion instead of single motherhood is insensitive and illogical.. especially considering she has the support of her family.

Just because you choose to not have children (frankly i'm in the same boat) doesn't mean you should be telling others not to reproduce because they were offended by someones douche bag comment. Babies are blessings to some people.


Also to OP
You should get a DNA test, though I respect your spiritual side it's important for you to know who the father is without question.
It's also important that your future child at least know who his/her father is.

I wish you luck and hope you and your child have a wonderful life.