..Well i'm not very pretty but

this may or may not be nonsense. whatever the case may be, you believe it

there could be a small chance they this girl does too.

 

You have 3 posts - you don't get to decide who's pretty and who's not around here. I've earned that right, and I say you are pretty. Discussion over!

 

It definitely isn't nonsense. No woman in the world would want my appearance, and knowing my circumstances, I'm sure you know I'm right. Im also over 30, and never heard anything nice about how I look, but plenty of negative things so, yep Im ugly. lol

Im not saying she doesn't believe it, I'm just always baffled at how women who clearly are pretty, believe that they aren't. As I said, it likely is because of the huge pressure that many women put on themselves to look "perfect", and anything less than that is unattractive in their eyes.

 

i see why you would think this, it's just hard to accept based on assumption. i think, even at the point of sounding crass, confidence is king.

this is what makes a person attractive, even subconsciously speaking.

 

my best friend is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in real life, and she hates the way she looks. She has a slender dancer's body, but she thinks shes fat. She hates her face but everyone is always falling in love with her eyes. She's crazy. It blows my mind.

I rarely come across people I would describe as "ugly." plain, maybe. But the only people I've ever thought were truly ugly generally had really ugly personalities to go with their ugly physical appearance.

I don't know your circumstances, but even if you don't have traditional good looks, a radiant smile and sparkling eyes can go a long way. Be happy and focus on the positive and your beauty will shine through.

 

Well, when even women who look normal, and who actually are very pretty, can have self-esteem issues and be insecure about their looks, it shouldn't be too surprising that for a woman like me, those insecurities would be hugely magnified. Yes, I can see why you wouldn't just assume I'm correct even though you can understand why I see myself the way I do. lol

I dont see how there's any way I could be confident in my appearance without being seriously deluded over how I actually look. I can see what you're saying about confidence though, and you are right. But then again, many women are insecure and not confident, and don't have any problems in being seen as attractive by others. (as threads like this prove) Though yes, if you're physically attractive and confident, that is going to be more attractive to most people, than if you're physically attractive and insecure.

 

Yes, I can understand why you'd be baffled at that. I'm always amazed when pretty girls say they hate how they look. I also have a friend who hates how she looks, when she looks great, and is always being complimented on her appearance. It blows my mind too. lol

Well the funny thing is, Id never describe anyone else as "ugly" purely based on their looks, but I can quite easily use that word to describe my own appearance. Unlike many women who strive to look beautiful, if I looked "plain" Id be quite content with that. I do think true uglieness comes from the inside, which is why Id never use that word to describe anyone purely on physical appearance alone.

A lot of people do compliment me on my personality and say how beautiful it is. Though some have also said they can't believe I look as bad as I say, because Im such a nice person. Which kinda disturbs me, as if you can't be physically unattractive but beautiful inside at the same time. I do think if you're a woman, a lot of the time your inner beauty is only acknowledged if your physical self matches that. (especially by men) It took me a very long time to realise it, but I know that I am a good, kind person, even if my outer self doesn't really match my inner self. lol

Oh, and apologies for taking this thread so far off topic.

 

you got a lot of nice comments. but I am gonna be honest. I do not think you are pretty. you are not ugly but not pretty either.

but it don't matter. you could be a chill person. look do not matter much.

 

you are way better looking than me nice photo

 

Your face is pretty.

 

ide hit it and ide hit it good gurl mmmm mmm u fine

 

You are super pretty! I wish i could meet somebody with you style where im from!

 

You don't think you're pretty? I think you're pretty. I think saying you're not pretty might be just a way to beat the people the the punch- that might not think you're attractive but. I think you should try not giving a fuck. Not everyone will think you're attractive. However in this instance it's not the case.

I think you're gorgeous.

 

there are lots of girls that look like her and have her style in moreno valley. if you live in moreno valley CA. she looks a lot like a indian or mexican indian.

I am from san bernadino (rialto) right by MV.

 

With her tongue maybe?

 

oh shit she dont have arms?

 

Arms are not important anyways, kinda like your appendix. They are there but you don't really need them.

 

Totally fishing for a compliment.
Lol.

 

No doubt; but she’s hot and I’m sure she has a beautiful set of arms tucked away behind that nice torso


hotwater

 

Wow! my heart drop...Your beautiful, cool outfit too, I wish there was more chicks like you in NY. thats into girls