hey, this is directed to any sex. i am wondering, how to give a good hand job, so if you've ever given one or had one given to you, could i get any tips? this is slightly embarrassing, but o well.
I think that the most common mistake is for girls being too gentle, always afraid of hurting the old cack&balls... Be firm, but above everything, communication is key, just keep asking him what he likes, how he's feeling etc.
each guy is unique, so ask him what he likes, if it feels good the plethora of guys I've been with (well, 2) seemed to like it when I twisted my wrist a bit, so there was more than just an up and down movement, it was also a bit circular. Make sure you aren't doing it too hard though - I can imagine it could hurt if you went to hard/didn't use enough lube (I actually never used lube for it, but I never moved my hand along the skin, more like moved the skin around him, if that makes sense... one guy was uncircumsized, the other only partially, so they had a fair amount of loose skin to do this with) Communicate!
start off kinda gentle, and then rouch up a bit. the basis should be moving your hand up & down the shaft of the penis, but also play around with the head, and breaking to tickle his testicles might turn him on. tease him by slowly rubbing your finger up & down his penis, and let it get a bit more aggressive from there! Good luck!
Psilonaut is correct. be firm yet gentle. dont be afraid of his cock. and if the guy likes lube use it. heres a technique i use while giving a blowjob or handjob. grab the shaft of the penis with a fist squeeze gently and as you go up twist your wrist and the same as you go down just a simple twist of the wrist will feel awsome for you man. mainly while your going down on your guy ask him what he likes or doesnt
indeed...like when they try to move their hands over the skin as opposed to moving the skin itself....THATS what hurt. the skin needs to move over the blood vessels behind it, otherwise you get cock burn, similar to rug burn.
My boyfriend says that I give amazing handjobs, but I can't say exactly why. Part of it is probably just that I really enjoy doing it and enjoy making him feel good and he can tell that. Also, we are very open and let each other know what we enjoy. But I really can't describe what I do, so I guess I can't be that helpful. But definitely just find out what he likes. Openness is as good thing.
