K so the story is I'm in love with my best friend. Her name is Stormie and I've known her sense we were 6. We're 16 now and she asked me to prom. At first I was ecstatic but then I realized that she wanted to go with me as a friend. I've tried telling her my feelings before but she always changes the subject or goes off and hugs somebody else and starts a conversation with them before i can get my point across. Help me plz i really don't know what to do. Plus im using a house account so everyone in this house uses this account but its ok we're so open to each other that it doesn't matter.
gotta move on and find someone who's interested in you. girls that call you their best friend just want to use you.
Even if she wants to go with u as a friend you should go. Look you are leaving hs and your child hood behind, don’t you think the prom should be spent with a close friend someone who you can look back on the experience with fondly years from now?
Definitely go to prom with her since it's so close to prom and you've already said yes. Don't stop being friends with her but as a girl I know where this is going: nowhere. It will be hard but you should definitely start turning your interest to other girls. She may even respond in a jealous way and want you once she knows that there is competition!
Your family has a house account on HF? o.o That's pretty interesting indeed... Anyway, this is the gist I'm getting. She'd like you to go to the prom with her. It's a request from one best friend to another. Anyway you look at it, it's a good idea to honour that request. If you can't take her to the prom as your girlfriend, then at least you'd still be taking her as your best friend. And sometimes best friends mean more to you than a girlfriend might. But... Do I know this Stormie girl? I know one Stormie around that age, I won't get into the details but she's an interesting one. Cute in glasses... All the best.
are they really best friends though, or is he her best friend while she's that unavailable girl he's been following around?
If you try to tell a girl that you like her as more than a friend and she wonders off or changes the subject it is to send you a clear signal that it's never going to happen. Go to the prom - have a good time with your friend. Look ahead to dating other girls afterwards...your feelings of this nature are always going to be lost on her.