How bad will this effect future relationships?

I'm 19 and considering hooking up with a 28 year old. We do not want a relationship with each other.
My fear is if I meet someone that I want to be with in a relationship, I don't know how they will feel that I had sex with someone 9 years older than me. I do not want to lie to them either, especially if things start to get serious between us.
So how would you feel if you were interested in someone that has had sex with someone much older or much younger than them? Would you be okay with it, or would you be freaked out?

 

I really wouldnt care?? i dont understand why anyone would be freaked out really! i dont see the big deal

calm down.. have fun

 

Yeah why would anyone care

 

Perhaps it is you who has a problem with the age difference. It's not wrong to feel like 9yrs is a big deal

 

:sunny:

 

no one will care.

theres only a bright side to it and its that you'll have much better sex experience under your belt. imp: go for it.

 

You don't know that he could still be awful and looking to be with some one younger to avoid ridicule at his lack of sexual prowess

 

haha that is possible!!!!!!

 

lol tru dat.

at least u'd get at least some some experience and get the better end of the stick. or more like the better end of the penis. :sombrero: (at this point im just using random smilies haha)

 

Haha yeah I hope that's not the case though! I would like to be satisfied

 

Is this the guy you talk about in the other thread? What I'm wondering, more like, is...

In this hypothetical future relationship, why would there be a need to parade the age difference between you and some past lover?

Personally, I can't see myself asking someone (as a prerequisite) if they'd had a relationship with somene of such and such an age-spread...So, why do you feel the need to tell?

Much like I wouldn't like to know any details about what you guys did in bed, I would prefer to focus on the now rather than knowing how old he was.

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What would concern me more is the fact that you seem to pre-coreograph your love life before it happens. I'd be afraid of what your plans would be for me without my knowing them.

Or even that you might already be thinking about your "future" before our relationship even started.

 

I agree. And the fact that op started 3 threads pertaining to the same situation makes me think it's more her than the guy and/or society who has a problem with it

 

Mmmmhmmm

 

I would say to don't give a flying fudge about what others may think. If you are so concerned about that aspect, maybe you should think about the 'thing' you and that guy are going into, just 'hooking up'. It's clearly unconfortable for you.

it was comic to read this. I'm 19yrs old and my boyfriend is 29 and the difference age is not that big of a deal.

 

i suppose pedophilia might create issues for me..

 

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