Nipples turns me off.

I've been watching alot of sex documentaries and been studying sex and attraction for a year now, thx to PUA interest.

I've learned from Sexual Secrets from Discovery, that breast in humans imitates the butts of female humans.

Studies has shown that gorilla's with bigger breast repelled the males to a certain extent, because they dont walk upright so the males wouldnt see them much anyway, and it indicated pregnancy.

Humans breast looks more similar to butts, and they are on display because the walk upright.
And since they are covered up they are more sexually teasing.



On to the point of this thread.
I cant help looking at big boobs covered a bit up, it teases me.

But as soon as the bra gets off and the nipples show themselfs all the arousal gets lost and back to neutural.

And the consistency of the brest feels wierd when squeezing them.


Also I hate watching my own nipples in the mirror(I work out and they look great according to girls), I want to cover them up. Nipples are so sensetive when touched.



My girlfriend touch my nipples all the time, and I slap her hands of cause, I simply fucking hate it! Useless mannipples doens't even have an purpose which I ever heard of, other than be ugly and annoying.

She want me to suck her nipples cause she says it feels good, and she has been complaining that I close to never feel her boobs.

I want to be turned on, so I can satisfiy her by doing that, but when I do it makes it even worse, grosse hard lump of a nipple between my lips almost make me throw up, and my erection falls to rock bottom.



I remember in my early teens, when I first started licking, how grosse it felt, but I got over that pretty quickly, and now I so want to eat her up.
But, nipples...its just...plain wierd!

Note: My GF, would have the perfect looking boobs and nipples for me, since they are firm and big and the nipples are failry small, but even so they are disturbing me.

The rest of her body is a perfect 10 in my eyes, so she feels more than satisfied on those areas(so do I!), but I want to be 100% aroused by everything on her:sad:



Is this just me?????????

 

Yes, it's just you.

Nipples are amazing.

 

I hope theres a simple psychological cure for this!

 

Well, I'm no doctor but I recommend a good 5-10 minutes of motorboating followed by 5-10 of nipple biting.

If that doesn't cure you, then you're hopeless.

 

Your indeed no doctor...

 

Yeah, I know what you mean.







It's getting hawt up in here!

 

No, but I've seen one on tv.

 

i am, you need to put a nipple in your mouth.

 

Well played Kinky.

As you may recall reading some seconds back in time, I do have.



Maybe its my nipples which are too sensetive, which cause me to feel that that area need to be handled gently even not at all.

 

I was actually going to ask if your nipple sensitivity could have anything to do with it.

It sounds like a hang-up that could possibly go away, but it may take some work.

You might want to look into phobias and desensitization therapy; you could learn to be comfortable with nipples by playing with hers more (her pleasure would definitely be rewarding if you were to focus on it, and not the act you must perform to achieve it.)

I also think maybe getting more comfortable with your nipples' sensitivity could help, but maybe not, cause mine can get really sensitive at times to the point where I can't stand stimulation..

 

Finally a serious answer, thank you.

I've been studying alot of psychology aswell and a bit on phobias(clearly not enough).

What I've learned and tried, is to imagine the sitution when I caress her nipples and lick them with passion and trying to see myself enjoying it, which has been successfull to some extent.
And then physically facing it and doing it.

When I caress her boobs, it feels nice, but its no passion when I do it, and she gets a bit bothered and says its no point if I dont like it. And take my hands away.
But when I try to caress her nipples, I'm like "Ok, lets get this over with!", and I feel very tense and uncomfortable.

 

man I wish I only had to worry about my boyfriend ignoring my nipples...

 

Well, I think you need to talk with her and get her on board with what you're trying to do. Explain to her that you know it's just skin and nerves and you don't know why it bothers you and you want to learn to like them if you can.
Her cooperation is really important to create positive experiences to build on.

 

You know, when your nipples are stimulated by a guy, your brain releases the hormone oxytocine, you should count yourself lucky



Duck;

I have and she understands it, and she really likes that I'm wanting to fix this little phobia.


May the power of time be with me. I gonne succeed in this, even if it takes a year!


Maybe I should let her touch mine aswell since she cant control herself when they are exposed, so she gets tired and maybe I get used to it.

ATM, I get really angry when she does it, just like people do with other phobias, either cry or get angry.
With very high levels of testosterone that I got, I get really angry.


Such a ridicilous problem to have...

 

Well, like I always say, everyone's different.... But I for one love nipples. I love looking at girls' nipples, feeling them, sucking on them, and I love my own stimulated, too.

 

I've never met a woman's nipples I couldn't love.

 

Sounds like you got the right thinking to me :sultan:

May help, but if you react so strongly, it may be that it takes time for you to be ready for it

It's only when we try to make sense of the world that it seems ridiculous; things just are. Try your best not to let your problem frustrate you, you want to focus on building positive feelings and overcoming negative ones.

 

i think you just like ass. not breasts.

 

Did your mamma beat ya?

 

Yes Normal Looking Nipples Turn Me On....